Is Nanna's love is not healthy for kids?

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I am happy that my Mom wants to help me of taking care my only child. She's good in everything on how to take care a baby... What can i ask for? I don't need a Nanny to look after my baby while I go to work. However I found out Nanna's giving my baby a sip of coffee. Give her lollies and chocolates.The not so good about my mom.Nail polishing my baby's nails. OMG! I want to freak out. Am I over reacting. My mom is having fun and as well as my baby. Usually my baby cries if she wants to get something. My mom would be there right away and give her lollies to pacify her.Even when she wants to buy toys, my mom would give her every thing. I don't like the fact that moms spoils her. When I am home after work, I seldom have time for my baby and usually they take care of her. One of the things i dont appreciate as well is when they count on what they have help to me for taking care of my litte one. We basically dont have freedom, we have to ask mom if want to go out. Now i have decided to get a place for me and my baby so we can both have time and take care of her personally. However I have heard negative things about it at first from my parents. Eventually they have let us move out of their house. However I still feel suffocated when my mom pushes their way, like if they want to see my daughter, if they want to help me. I am afraid that every help there's a price attach. I love to get a help but I would rather handle things on my own than asking moms help.