Relationship of the Children with the Parents
By srjac0902
@srjac0902 (1169)
Italy
November 11, 2012 2:58pm CST
Today the children are facing a great crisis in identifying their Parents. Many of them have single parent and many others have more than one father and more than one mother because the mother does not live with her Child's father or the Father does not live with his child'd mother. The children are at mess. I have seen that the children love both the parents and when they see them in conflict they suffer so much. When either of them complain, the children hesitate to respond. Though the separated parents have their legitimate claim or complaint, those who suffer most are the innocent children. When these children are at school they get deeply attached to their teacher rather than the parents. This also due to the fact that the children spend the longer hours in the school and either with the class teacher or with the tutor. We also hear that the nation and the Parents wake up today to take care of their little children, but who can better assure the children that happiness that is due to them?
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4 responses
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
11 Nov 12
Well, I'm not being a father, probably also tell you that I would not be sure a parent-model, as I lack experience in this phase of life.
Anyway, I fully agree with your thoughts.
When at home, parents should not agree, or even worse they are separated and therefore "in trouble," to suffer most the consequences, are the kids!
I know it's bad to think about, but unfortunately it is a reality.
But when a family there is harmony between parents, most of the time the children are happy.
The happiness or unhappiness that it is, also weighs heavily on the results of life, such as school performance.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
11 Nov 12
Sometimes it is a better situation for the children if the mother and father are not together. What if the child is seeing absue ALL the time? What if the child has to be a witness to their mother constantly get beat? What if the child has to be in the middle of fighting and arguing all the time? Then what is the better situation?? Being together or separated?
I sometimes think it can be a good thing for the mother and father not to be together for the child's sake... Just my opinion though.
@srjac0902 (1169)
• Italy
11 Nov 12
Its a great crime, allowing and causing the children see the mother being beaten, insulted, abandoned and tortured even innocently. That is the most tragical part. I know a mother so much ill treated and in the evening when the husband returns home fully drunk, the mother has to escape to avoid being beaten up by the husband. The night is dark, escaping through the forest, under the rain and storm with a small lantern, yet there is no one to defend her and the helpless children just watch over this scene. Its a crime to create in our innocent children those deep wounds and scars.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
11 Nov 12
I have a great relationship with my son. For 2 years it was just him and I here. I know many families who do not have good relationships with their kids. Im glad Im not one of them.
@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
11 Nov 12
no one can make a child safe and secure if not the parents. it is a sad thing where parents create a foundation of insecurity for their children by separating or divorcing. the children cannot help it but grow up with lots of problems. the society can only help by making the parents aware of their responsibility, but i doubt if anyone is ready to take on the burden of another when it comes to training children, not even the teachers.
