Fake friends

India
November 13, 2012 6:41am CST
Recently,our friends group had a big fight amongst each other and the result became the formation of two groups. The reason for fight was because they doubted something and began to cross check each and every activity that me and my other friend do. It's so irritating and we decided to ask them about the same. And hence the result was a fight. Now i don't even feel like talking to them. I am also shifting my room far from them
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4 responses
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
13 Nov 12
Ohhh God why your friend is cross checking to you if not trust then leave the friendship. I not like to make close friend because now friends are selfish and I hate them.
• India
14 Nov 12
Yes I am from India and you are from which country. Nice to meet you on mylot and Welcome in mylot. I think you are also from India because your name is nitinnair.
• India
14 Nov 12
Hi. Yes i am from India. I had put it in my profile too. Nice to meet you. Happy mylotting as all say
• India
13 Nov 12
Yes who are they to interfere in our lives? Friends should stay at friends level not more. I think you are from india. Nice meeting you.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
We can not always have a very peaceful relationship with our friends. But I guess if we have an open communication, an open mind and heart, we can understand each other. Why not have a real good talk about what happened?
• India
14 Nov 12
Yes i agree with you. But talk with whom? They were the ones who started doubt and cross check. Is this how friends should behave? I cannot forgive them.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
13 Nov 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i can understand your situation and i know what it feels like when your own friend group is divided into two groups. U feel like as if your feelings and emotions have been halved. Misunderstandings do exist in friendship but we have to be sensible and intelligent enough to handle such sensitive relationships. I think u should try to forget everything what has happened and now u have to make the first move to rekindle everything back to normalcy. What say?
• India
13 Nov 12
Two of them were my flat-mates. And they start doubt if i keep house clean or not. My work is on morning shift till night. Theirs is second shift. They come late night,talk loud,etc. I mean i don't trust them anymore. I even thought of taking a step forward,but my conscience does not allow me. They are fake friends and i had enough of them
• Philippines
13 Nov 12
It is sad that friendship do come in situation like this. I believe it is one way of filtering who's people are going to stay until the end. Do you really want this to end up? The best person to start the move is YOU. If you want to save them, then do it. We might never know the result of your step but you effort matters a lot! Besides, it is not easy to throw the memories you've made for each other. Think of the past and how colorful it is with them. All you gotta do is to have that courage. For now, since you still don't feel like talking to them, take some time with yourself and reflect. Think a life without them or with them. Start moving on and you'll see that all of you will be better friends after this. :) I wish you and your group forever friends!
• India
13 Nov 12
Our friends group was 4 boys and some 5 girls. The girls already decided not to talk to me except 1. The 2 boys talk to me only when in need. And i do not consider that as friendship