...do you have bestfriend whom you both know each others deepest secrets...
By hlfbldmom
@hlfbldmom (743)
Philippines
November 13, 2012 9:36am CST
a best friend understands the gibberish behind all your crying and knows when your a** is lying. a best friend sees you for who you are nothing more and nothing less...
I have 3 best friends one is my real sister and the 2 is more like a sister to me. I tell them everything as in everything. I didn't hide anything from them even my stupid mistakes and the shameful thing i did. They do the same thing too, they never hide anything from me.
Do you tell your best friend absolutely everything that goes in in your life or do you prefer?
8 responses
@gilenie (190)
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16 Nov 12
i had 2 best buddy one is a gal and one is a boy... my bestfriend gals knows me well ..we started as chatmates then meet in real till now we do communicate almost everyday.. i think its not abt the matter of how long have u met its abt how both of u comunicate well and treating each other well...on the other hand my bestfriend guy is also same though we havent talk lately cos he had a very busy job,,but we do still meet and have some bonding time if both of us are free...
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
It's about how you respect each others differences and embrace it. Respecting each other and even though sometimes you are fighting still u are best buddy!.
@graysky (132)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
i have a bestfriend who is just like a sister to me.sometimes we have different views in life perhaps due to age gap,i am older than her,but it doesnt concern the friendship we have.we share everything about life,stupidity,laughs,craziness,problems,ups and downs and there were times we disagree but it dont matter.we never miss a day without talking with each other as in long talk.during the time when she had problems with her love life,i felt the pain too.and now that she is happy,i am more than happy for her..
@challs12 (548)
• Malaysia
13 Nov 12
I think my answer will different with most of members. I don't like to share secret and I like to live alone if I could (unfortunately cannot). I just don't have too much things to talk with people so definitely I will have nothing to share with best friends or anybody. I like to live my way and I don't like to talk to much with others.
I have heard that older said, our best friend is our most dangerous enemy and our enemy can be a good help to us (good friend) cause when he tell something bad about us, people will believe him, but if our enemy say bad about us, people will not believe because people know that we are enemy so for sure we keep trying to put down each other.
@dheckerz (473)
• Philippines
13 Nov 12
Yes. I've met one when I was working. I have a best friend in high school but she's really busy now with her two kids. I've made a friend to one at work and we share a lot of similarities. When i had a big problem, she is the only one i can think of to share it with. I have a lot of friends but she's the only i could trust to share my secrets. I had a family problem at that time and she has undergone same situation, so she was my crying shoulder and understood where i am coming from.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
Glad you had your best friends too whom you can tell everything whether it's a problems or happiness. It's great to have a best friend whom you can share anything that you cannot share with your family. And best friend is always there to listen and to comfort us..
Thanks for Sharing dheckerz!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
I do open up to my friends. I belong to a large group of girls. At least 4 of them, I am really close to. They are the people who knows almost everything about me. I do not ask them what their secrets are. I just allow them to say whatever they are comfortable sharing with coz I do not want to push it that much.
@akagami (250)
• Indonesia
13 Nov 12
yeah i have already best friend in my life.
everytime i have trouble in my life usually i will tell her about my problem.
and of course she didn,t hide anything to me.everytime she get trouble,she always tell me about her trouble.she is my best friend and of course my girlfriend.
there,s nothing to hide for me and her
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
13 Nov 12
No ,no such friends. I have friends whom i know ,that's all, not like knowing deepest secrets , but we respect each other and don't force anyone to get the secrets.
@iMamom (321)
• Philippines
13 Nov 12
Hi Hlfbldmom,
I do have a highschool bestfriends, but only one, I am really comfortable of telling my secrets however when i went to college we seldom see each other then I met 2 more bestfriends in college. I trusted the other one but end up loosing her because of her lesbian girl friend but now were good because they broke up already. The other one is not that good, I think shes a traitor but i still remain her best friends she used to trick me in order to get higher results in exam she gave me a wrong pointers for our exam the next day since i was absent. Up to now theyre both my bestfriends. They knew almost everything in my life.
Glad to know that one of your bestfriend is your real sister. In my case I am not comfortable of telling my sisters about my secret.
Thanks for sharing... :)