How you have succeed against a emotional breakdown caused by breakage relationsh

We can't tell people to open up and share. People have the right to keep the experience she/he thought should not be shared. Encouragement maybe the right term to use for this specially for those who have no one to share it with. Sometimes it is a reliever to share what you have in mind specially those stories or experiences that can lead to break downs to strangers. They don't know who you are and they can't judge you fast enough. and true, the experiences here may help other users specifically if by coincidence that someone is going through same situation.

5 years ago, there was some big issues that happened in our marriage. I really felt my world crumbling. Didn't know what to to do or where to go. Didn't know which was right or wrong. My thoughts were clouded with pain and disappointment. It took me months before I was able to get over it. I slowly felt my sanity as fading. Then I realized, I have kids to care about and a there is still life ahead of me. I struggled to pick up the broken pieces and have learned to let go and move on.

Maybe the situation is different between man and woman when experience emotional break off. Maybe man can face the situation better than a woman, but woman can take example how man can handle the situation cause it's really works. First you must make your heart like made of steel. Means, don't give attention to much on the problem. Don't think too much on the problem. Life must go on and we deserve to live happily without thinking the bad pass story. Cheer up and make busy. Remember that we have to pay attention, to think on lots of other things instead of thinking person that don't love us or thinking on how we cannot get what we want. Accept that we cannot get all that we want because we just a normal human beings. But we deserve to live happily and get someone who really love us. So, go get some other guy that can love you more. This is my way, I have been rejected and fail in love/relationship so many times in my life before I get married. Each time I clash, I will look for more younger, more prettier, more better in every aspect as the replacement. I did it. My first lover same age with me. Then after clash, I look the one that 3 years younger than me, then after clash, I look 8 years younger than me, then after clash again, I look for 14 years younger than me. And she is my wife now. For woman, you should older man each time you break off, the reason, older man more patient, understanding, more caring and loving than a younger man. Woman needs to be cared and to be loved more than giving cares and giving loves. Younger man still in need to be cared and to be loved just like a woman.

Hello somupriti what a nice discussion. I think it is nice because we can share our inner pain, and when we share it we can realize that we are not alone, because other people has came through a similar situation. When I had to overcome a hard emotional breakdown it was 17 years ago. I felt desperate and alone in the world. I had no grandparents, nor grandaunts so loved, because they had already passed away, my parents were divorcing. But I remembered how my grandma and grandauntie prayed a lot, and looked to God, and had a lot of faith. So I began looking for God. I got inrolled in a ministry called charitas to help poor children. And since that day I had never left my prayers nor my ministry. I take a time to be with God daily. Not matter what. I got married 15 years ago, with my bestfriend, and I had three children,almost teen. I hope this could help somebody suffers a deep loss. What do you think somupriti? Blessings somupriti... dainy

Such cases ALWAYS have been common. Not just nowadays. 600 years ago it was exactly the same just like 2000 years ago. So it's nothing new, the only thing that is new is that we talk about it now. Before we abandoned the one with the broken heart or the one that was left! That is the difference. And since we talk about it now it should be easier too to give it a place in our life. To understand that nothing will last forever. That there is a time to come and a time to leave. That we should not sit and wait for others to make us happy, but have to plan our own life. Set our own goals, love and pamper ourself. We might feel lost if we are dumped but we are not. Since we are not the only one, we are strong, survivors and there are plenty of people in this world who like to be with us. Perhaps we don't see that at the moment but sooner or later it's time to look around and give others a change plus ourself. Since happiness is a choice!