What should i do???

This type of situation is so hard to be in, I think we all have been in them. I have a few that even 2 -3 years later are like this, even after me telling them i am not interested. Sadly, these feelings wont go away or him stop until you say it bluntly, or more or less rip his face off.

Just let him be. Don't brush him off because that will only push him to pursue you more. Men usually loves challenge, especially if they really like the girl. So let him give you what he wants and you will see his intention. Good luck

hi LMS, Well he is homeless but managed to buy you roses and red bulls this is sweet but kinda confusing well if you really don't like him just ignore him cause the more you give attentions the more he might assume that there will be a chances for him. If he will persist and you think you are being harassed you report him to authorities Welcome to mylot keep on posting

hmmm the naughty side of me tells, "Accept and Enjoy it" and ask him to dine you out in a fancy restaurant. They say if you dont like the guy as a boyfriend, ask him out and go the most expensive restaurant as in. Just let it it is his choice you have done your part.

If you do not want to hurt him.Yes,please refuse him determinedly.So,he does not need to spend time and energy on you.he can do other things.It is good for him.Maybe he does not understand now.For the long run,it is sensible.

I think he is a good man because he is exerting effort to get your attention.Why not giving him a chance.First time you wont like him eventually you will like him..Just try first then you'll know.

I think you just tread him like a friend and never say anything bad to him cause it's very hard for anyone being rejected and being scold. Furthermore, he is homeless which means he has no good income for living. So, it will be very hard for him to accept the he's been rejected furthermore being scolded. Just say hi to him everyday and try not to be alone with him cause you might make he thinks that you like him.

Hi do you have any other guy friends in that area, pretend that guy your guy and this nice homeless guy that your new boyfriend. maybe this will work, here other thing you will not like to do .have taken in for stalking you that what he doing kind of. ok have a good day.

So he is homeless but has plenty of money to buy you red roses? They are for free in North Carolina? And redbulls??? Not very romantic. If you are not interested why asking here what to do? Ignore them and enjoy the roses. Pity to throw them away. And do NOT take him into your house! It will be very hard to get rid of him if you do that!

Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i can understand your issue very well and i know he is having a crush on you may be because he has liked something about u. I think u should ask him to give u more time to understand him so that then u can think of taking the relationship to the next level. Now since he is a good guy, may be u can know him much better and ask him to be stable first as u said that he is homeless. He gets u gifts which means that he wants u in his life. What say?

Thank him for being honest with his feelings towards you, and then after tell him in a serious note that you are better off as friends and there is nothing more than that. It's hard to stop him from what he is doing, I think by time it will eventually be gone, I think letting him have his own space and try to let him meet other people will eventually divert his attention towards you.

This is a tough situation, if you are nice he will get the wrong idea and continue to pursue you. If you are mean he could get upset and go serial killer mode. (I watch a lot of ID channel) So your best bet is to cut off communication. Find ways to avoid him stay busy make up excuses or have your cousin tell him you are not available or not home. Out of sight out of mind right?