Is he really my friend?

I think he is a good friend. I think when you have a hard time, he talking with you because he want you to try to pass it. But when you have a good time, do you call for him? May be he has a hard time.

I want to give advise to everyone dont trust too much on friend because real friend is not exist in the world. If friend giving good suggestion then no problem accept it but dont trust too much. Distant is necessary dont make closeness.

Hmmm... That is odd. I don't want to be negative on this but maybe you are right that he is not happy with your good tidings. If that were to happen to me, I'll just let that person be. There's no need to rock the boat. Just be grateful that he/she came to your life at the time a friend was needed the most.

Don't worry and I suggest you to be cool and concentrate on your job rather think too much of your "That" friend. He may be thinking or feeling jealous that you have got good paying job because of his advice. But keep in mind you have got the job because you deserve it. I suggest you just try to call himm up and tell him that you have arranged the party specially for him only since he has given lots of advice to you. I am sure if he is your real friend then he will make a point to come and see you. Otherwise he will not. Try it out

I don't know, maybe your friends are satisfied that you are okay so you don't need to be comforted any more, to them your problem is solved. But if you really believe that they are jealous, then assess their actions. Jealousy between friends is okay I think as long as they get over it real soon. real friends will be happy for you. They stuck with you through hard times, give them some credit.

Hey there! from my point of view there are two reasons. first, probably the person is busy with work or else second, the person jealous of you maybe. Anyway, think positive. There is a lot of people out there who can be your friends but please bear in mind not all of them can be called as a friend through thick and thin.

Oh, that's weird. Your friend is there when you need a listener; however, when you don't have any problem any more and you wanna share your happiness, your friend becomes a stranger, skipping calls and can't be reached. Just wait for your friend to keep in touch with you. Maybe your friend is only busy and you're only misinterpreting it as being jealous of your good fortune or success.

I do not know what to think. It is interesting that you noted this distinct change in his behavior between the times you are struggling and the times you are not. Maybe they are really negative and thrive on negative vibes rather than positive ones. Or is it possible that they feel like they want to help you like they are a real nurturer or something.. and so they do not know what to say when things are good?

I think your friend still cares for you,may be your friend has problem or has been busy... I think you call and ask why if your friend is not returning your call or drop a msg. Happy Mylotting

A true friend will always be a true friend dear despite the distance or whatever circumstances that would separate you. He must have his own reasons why he can't keep up with your communication. Don't worry, he still care about you. As long as you are in good terms, you too are cool.

I would ask your friend why he/she does that. You give me advice and when something good happens you don't call or communicate. This reminds me of high school when my so called pals would help me deal with bullies. They're on my side one day, the next they're with the perpetrators laughing with them at me. I found this out when it was far too late. I was living in complete denial and did not want to prove my family right for what they've been telling me. When they needed me I was there, then I would need them and they're no where to be found. I'd ask if they want to hang out during the weekends at my house and they would have other plans. I want to go to concerts to see bands I listen to, they don't like the bands or group playing. In the end, I was reaching adult hood and by that time I just had enough. I cut them loose. Sorry for the rant. Just giving you my version of how I felt. Hope that helps.

My comments is that: it depends. Maybe you should be more skillful in dealing the relationship. Some people might be truely happy for you, but some might be a little bit "jealous" if you have really high pay. That's common feelings. People tend to think: we are in different world if we are not same wealthy. You should consider things more comprehensively, consider more of her feelings. How about do something you both interest together once again? That might be good for your friendship.

Yes that's a friend indeed. Upset? maybe this friend just give you more time to adjust to your new job. Maybe this friend is busy also right now and since you are okay it's time for this friend to do his/her stuff. Ask your friend how's he/she is holding up.

he/she,might have a special feelings for you that he cant express thats why he gives you all the encouragement and upliftment u need when you are down but he distance himself when you are up because he is afraid of rejection or dont want anyone else to look down on him.he is your friend but he has special feelings for u i guess.

Well, I think that you friend is happy with the good things that came your way. And her reason for not being that "visible" as a friend mighty be because she wants you to focus on your new job. She was there when you were down, why wouldn't she be happy if you have achieved something, right?

why not ask your friend about his behavior.. maybe his in the situation where he just can`t tell you that`s why he`s being distant right now.. He`s there through your bad times maybe he has just a problem or his just busy right now..