Commitment
By sakurage123
@sakurage123 (77)
Philippines
November 13, 2012 11:28pm CST
I have a long term boyfriend .He is a foreigner.We are in good terms and we both love each other.He often have a vacation with me and were happy together.He makes my life complete because he helps me in so many ways.one time he talked about marriage .I was very happy that time because that's my wish and so we started planning wfor our next plan.I prepare everything for the visa...Just last month we had a vacation again it sounds that he don't like what we talk about last time..I try to ask him about it but he just answer me that its very difficult for now especially the crisis in his country and he always say we have time.I am confused right now of what he really likes.When I gave him ultimatum like waiting for another year he just say that I'm too patient.and he just say we can see whats coming.Is he really serious? Or is she playing with me?What should I do? Will I wait for him?or I have to move on.
1 response
@wfhchristiner (352)
• Canada
14 Nov 12
When you say long term boyfriend, how long is it? How long have been with him in the same place (exclude not long distance relationship)? Long distance relationship ,aes a big difference. You can't get the up and close personal touch. You don't really know what is he doing in the foreign country. Have you ever been to his country and meet some members of his family?
Commitment is a big thing. Don't rush into this if you are not sure. It's even more difficult if you are dealing with foreigners, different country, cultures, and the distance. Take your time to investigate into it more thoroughly. There should be a reason why he is not into this, and you have to find out why! Don't push it, it may not be a good sign. Marriage needs 2 ways co-operation. If it is only one, it can create problems.
@sakurage123 (77)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
We've been together for a year and 2 months.His been here three times .I have never been to his country .Thank you very much for the advice..
