Why women who seek mens validation looses the game?
By iMamom
@iMamom (321)
Philippines
November 14, 2012 10:54am CST
I have learned that when women is trying too hard, a man will usually test to see how hard she's willing to work for it.
If you try too hard to look attractive to your man and seek your mans approval on anything you become vulnerable one in the relationship. The man tend to loose respect and pushes you around.
The man easily looses interest to women who doesn't show confidence and needs man on everything.
A woman can be Very Sexy when she can function on her own with out her mans approval.
5 responses
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
14 Nov 12
I agree so much. Being desperate is always bad when someone is looking for a good relationship. Of course it's easier to get a man like that, but is it worth it? Some men start relationships with slave-like girls because they are comfortable to live with, as they would do everything for them... like cleaning, cooking, accepting all their decisions... these kind of girls by most guys are used as doormats. Man RESPECT independent women more.
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
Yes, women would like a man who can be confident and show her the way. But not to the extent that she will be depending on him solely. Then she becomes the vulnerable one. The man may lose interest in the girl because men would like a strong woman who knows how to carry herself. 
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
I don't ask for my husband's approval when it comes to my clothes. However, there are times that he doesn't like my clothes. He says that they're revealing. Without any ado, I'll just change them. I want to have my freedom to wear anything I want. He doesn't like me to wear short pants, skirts and dresses. LOL. Anyway, I'm already married so I'll just respect his likes and dislikes. Thanks for sharing and happy mylotting.
@somupriti (353)
•
14 Nov 12
Just keep up to your self. Doing some thing to show that you want some bodies attention really lose your personal gravity. So by keeping your self up to you you can judge to whom you are likely to get close and then you can improvise your self accordingly. Never hover around.
@Gretchen522 (715)
• China
15 Nov 12
I don't agree with that, maybe she does not use a right way,maybe the man doesn't like her,not only woman have such situation,man too.
