How Do I Console Her???
By uchelink
@uchelink (200)
Nigeria
November 14, 2012 11:08am CST
My Mom called me yesterday and told that her elder sister son ( Atimo ) died in a car accident two days back in neighboring country where he is doing his fashion and designers business. By this time last year she buried her husband still the same accident... I really feel for her i don't know why all this things are happen to her now ...she so dear to me and my family, i have no called her up till now but intend calling her letter in the night. How do i start console her?????
Your response is welcome
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
Sorry to hear this.
I don't even know what to tell you.
Accidents in two consecutive years- gosh...
Your Aunt really need someone to talk and comfort her- maybe not to comfort her, but someone to lean on- a shoulder to cry on.
No word is needed- but a hug and your presence is enough to make her feel alright.
@Youreyes4Today (2356)
• United States
14 Nov 12
So sorry for the losses you all have felt. Not easy to deal with right away.
To help your mom get through this, allow her to talk, cry, yell, scream, whatever she is feeling. She needs to know it is ok to release these emotions to someone who will listen and Hear her. That alone is a blessing you can give her..
sends hugs for each of you for the comfort n warmth of a soul that cares.