can anyone give me solution?

I would say to pray / direct prayers.. nothing can change a person's heart, but the great one we direct our prayers to.. and prayer, really does help.. God bless! I said a little prayer for your mother to blessed.. (you are one of her biggest blessings?)

Sorry to hear that your dad treats your mom that way. Sad to say I'm sure that he is not the only husband who treats his wife with little appreciation for all she does. I would be angry with him to. Perhaps you should talk with him and tell him that you see he is hurting your mom's feelings and that he should be more respectful- in a tactful way of course.

There is probably not a lot you can do. It sounds like your mom really loves your dad a lot and would do what he wants. She may or may not always agree with him and that is something she has to do. No one can really help if they have been married for a long time, except for her and maybe she is just used to the way things work there.

How old is your father? How long has he been treating your mom this way? Is he suffering from any illness that could possibly cause him to be grumpy all the time? I am sure that your mom feels so sad having this kind of life with your dad. It is obvious that your mom is always on hand and foot for your father. Do you know anything that would have caused for your father to treat your mother that way?

It appears that your mom is a martyr. She chooses to be such and you can't do nothing concerning your mom. Why is your dad like that? Try to look for its root. The reason why he treated your mom as if he didn't care for her. That would be the time that you will look for ways to remedy the situation. I know how you feel it's your mom who is not treated fairly.

These are the situations of 3rd world countries. We should treat each other like 1st world countries.

I think it's her duty to serve her husband. Nothing more, noting less. About their argument, it's normal and I believe your mom use to it. Unless, your father hit your mom, then this is unusual. I think you don't have to worry much about this and your mom actually not being threaten badly by your father.

well just be cool dont argue and talk to your parents again about it

I am not really sure what you need a solution with..If its the face that your father is not respectful to your mom. then its just not your solution to fix...Its your dad's. Is he ill or in bad health? because I understand that someimes when olde adults are not in good health they become very "mean" to those they love...If you have a pretty good relationship with your dad, perhaps you can have a chat with him to to see why he acts and react the way he does,,Your Mom probably crie because she is hurt and she loves her hubby and feels there is nothing she could do about the way he treats her.. Good luck with this situtation...and good luck with your parent.

Hi friend, welcome to mylot. Really your dad is very lucky to have this kind of caring wife, but he don't realize her importance and hurting her with his activities. I wonder why he is doing this kind of unwanted things to her? There is nothing wrong in your anger and it shows your real affection with your mother. Ask your father, why he is doing such nasty activities to his innocent wife?

We are living in modern era but then there are still existing traditional head of the family such as what you are sharing . He speak and that is the only thing can be followed , no more arguments nor complains and woman in the other side is very submissive , indeed also a very traditional one. Time has changed , i don't believe in serving husband or wife . I believed it is not serving but it is more of helping one another since both are working to augment family's income. If one is free he should be the one to served and vice versa. Unlike the traditional ways wherein woman has to serve the man and man will be the one to be served only. Lets break this tradition . All must have equal rights no servant no king.

its really a big issue for your family and your dad is the head of your family so if he continue this type of nature against you then think its not good for u and your mom....i think you both of us should clearly tell him to explain why he do this hurting behaviour....pls tell him to clarify what he want to do?