dating your friend's ex

Uganda
November 14, 2012 11:30pm CST
is it a good idea to date your friends ex?
6 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
It might feel awkward. But I think it is also best to ask your friend if it is okay with her to date with her ex..just to be safe.
• Greece
16 Nov 12
I agree with you. For girls, dating your friend's ex is like betraying them especially if they still have feelings for their ex. But even if the break up is a mutual decision, asking her will make sure that it's not going to risk your friendship. I don't want to risk my friendship so I stay civil with my friend's boyfriends. But if a friend's ex ask me out and i really like the guy, I will ask my freind first.
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
well its defend on your past before i guess situation before will confuse the present if even you will date your ex again
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
15 Nov 12
i think it's ok. the most important we should know is whether your friend has been really broken up with the ex or not cos i ever had a bad experience when i was in senior high. i had a close friend. she liked a boy very much. but that boy didnt like her at all, he liked me instead. i had told to him that i didnt wanna be his GF cos i didnt wanna hurt my best friend's feeling. but he insisted me to accept him as my BF. cos i didnt stand with his efforts I then accepted him. i didnt liked him at all actually. then we promised to be backstreet. but finally our relation revealed cos he couldnt stand with backstreet relation. my best friend was really really upset with what i was doing. i just accepted her anger till today. the story was happened about twelve years ago and i dont marry with him. but my best friend is still angry to me and doesnt wanna make friend with me till today. what a sad story. yeah i know that my story is different with your topic. i just wanna say that we must be careful if we want to date our friend's ex. it could be like hell of we dont be careful..lol..
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
15 Nov 12
Is it a good idea to date anyone with an ex at all? Sorry but ex = exit and there was a good reason for it. If you can't date or start a relationship with someone who has an ex the biggest part of the people in this world would end up single/lonesome.
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 12
if u feel like to loose a friend, the go a head. i don't think u like if your friend date your ex. if u don't want to feel weird with your friend, better u not. maybe your friend will be feel uncomfortable with u, eventually he/she will try to not to see u. then u will loose a friend there.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
Dating a friend's ex isn't just playing with fire its a bomb that can implode your whole social circle. But it is ok with your friend then maybe a good idea or do you really like you friend's ex?