i dont believe love at first sight

@ungu89 (1999)
Malaysia
November 15, 2012 7:51am CST
im no longer believed in the idea of soulmate or even love at first sight. but i believe that few time in our life, if we are lucky, we might someone that perfectly match for us.its not because he is perfect or because of your are perfect, but because your flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together
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11 responses
911Ricki
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
17 Nov 12
I agree with you, I do not believe in love at first sight. We may meet that perfect someone but I believe our minds play tricks on us. I know many who say they met the right one meanwhile in no time they rbeak up.
911Ricki
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
24 Nov 12
I agree, it can be one sided in some relationships and in the love cycle. That love can also fade as time goes on, and we search even while we are with the other person.
ungu89
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 12
yes, once u give your love. when u break up, we want someone to love u. so u search again. the cycle just going round and round
ungu89
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
24 Nov 12
ya, sometime we don't notice that the person already in our life because we keep to search for them
litvillegas
@litvillegas (1274)
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
Perhaps admiration. I agree with you, we can't say that it's love in first meeting. I guess it'll take months to let them know or realize that they are really meant for each other. Thanks for sharing this. Have a great day!
ungu89
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
16 Nov 12
thanks. yes, its hard to read our heart
litvillegas
@litvillegas (1274)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
you're welcome
ungu89
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
27 Feb 13
smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
24 Nov 12
I not trust on love may be first sight or both side because true love is not exist in the world. I believe on marriage but not on affair.
ungu89
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
24 Nov 12
but still in marriage there is love
heaytheblogger
@heaytheblogger (2876)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Love is not just a direct attraction that when a person look at another they are then in love with another. I believed that love is a process, and not a direct reaction. You need to dig deeper to that person and you need to know about him, and know yourself before getting in to such intimate relationship.
ungu89
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
28 Nov 12
yes, the first is just to make u want to know about him/her more. after knowing each other , then we can decide weather its love or not
Anshee
@Anshee (49)
• India
24 Nov 12
Well said this is what i belive there is nothing as such love at first sight n bla bla, actually that is just attraction or infactuation that doest not last longer this is the reason why people break up with there patners so soon beacuse they make commitments on the basis of attractions without even realising that they are missing on love
ungu89
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
25 Nov 12
attraction, yes , that the correct word to use i think. u see then u said it love. what??? maybe that the youth nowdays think
danix1982
@danix1982 (593)
• Philippines
22 Feb 13
i agree.. love cannot be at first sight..
ungu89
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
27 Feb 13
yes! its really hard to find one like that
uchelink
@uchelink (200)
• Nigeria
15 Nov 12
Yes i agree with you, i don't believe in love at first sight.... We start by geting to each other, but seeing someone and start loving the person without geting to know the person that is not love but lust.
ungu89
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
16 Nov 12
yes, i really hate if know someone look for a partner just to satisfied his/her lust only. love is about companionship. being for each other
aeiou78
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 12
Of course a couple will not start loving each other during their first meeting. However, the first impression will be very important when a couple starts to feel good or interesting to each other. Then a romantic life starts. ha! ha! Without a good first impression, a new couple will not start admiring to each other and they will not be together, I guess. A good impression can be in terms of good outlook figure, good manner, communicating well in between a couple and so on. But do keep in mind that love is forever blind to a couple. ha! ha!
ungu89
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
16 Nov 12
the quotes that so famous. love is blind. yes, i cannot debate so much, me myself love him when first time i see him. it just unique i think, seeing, knowing the love him..
doroffee
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
15 Nov 12
I don't perfect relationships are about picture perfect people. It's perfect because of the shared imperfections. True love is when you know the other person's flaws, but you love them anyways. And I do beliebe in true love and soulmates. However, in love at first sight, nor do I. It might be attraction, but never love, because love is about accepting the other person and loving every bit of them, and you can't do that if you don't spend enough time with them to get to know them.
ungu89
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
16 Nov 12
yes, loving need u to accept your partner what they are. if u try to change them to full your need, its not love. only u just want someone perfect for your,maybe like your day dream.
Gretchen522
@Gretchen522 (715)
• China
15 Nov 12
I can easily like some one at the first sight, but I can't fall in love with someone in several minutes,love grows in daily life.
ungu89
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
16 Nov 12
u are right, the first impression is just to make u feel comfortable being with that person, but it doesn't mean that u will fall in love with that person
mariaperalta
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
15 Nov 12
I agree with you... how can you say you love someone just by looking at them. You need to know them. Be with them.
ungu89
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
16 Nov 12
yes,agreed with u. i have one friend that love some before she meet him.in the end she always get hurt. each time she try to set date to meet. the man see seeing always give some many reason to her.