painful happiness

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i learn so much in the motto of no pain no gain. this is beyond the physical pain that i mean. its the pain that we experience from within. i usually gave a credit to those people who pushes me through to overcome the painful reality. many of us does not see this as a happiness cause we tend to look only on the wounded pride that we had.in the process of becoming we tend to be hurt but in the end its a success that we want to achieve. for example, losing weight takes a lot of sacrifices in order to attain the perfection that we seek in our body. would you consider it a painful happiness? most people does not want pain but for those who seek happiness in a painful process it a fulfillment.