helllpppp!!!!!

November 15, 2012 9:41am CST
Do u have somebody or more than one person trying to tell you how to raise your kids or telling you constantly what you should or should not be doing with your kids?? well i do. My ENTIRE family has been on my case for over a week now telling me i dont change my son, i dont feed my son, i dont pay attention to my son and i am so beyond sick of it. My family has not been in my life for years and now all of a sudden they are telling me what to do when it comes to my kid. I know they are concerned but i doeven live with them so they dont know what i do with him. how do i get my family off my case and get them to realize i am grown and can take care of my kid as i have since i had him. Any ideas???
2 responses
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
27 Nov 12
I would ignore them, I know my Mother is very controlling. She always tells me my animals would starve without her. She always carries on how I dont feed them, pay attention to them (since I do work a lot of hours, and tryig to find another job to move out away from them), but I give them the necessities and when I get home from work I give them the attntion. I just let them carry on and ignore them do what I want. Its not their problem, and they just see it wrong as you may do things different than they did to their kids.
27 Nov 12
I try to ignore it and do my own thing but its so hard not to let it bother you. Ive learned just to stay away from them all together.
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Nov 12
Completely ignore it all! If they are not getting a reaction they will stop doing it. It is only enjoyable if they are succeeding in bothering you...Even if you hear rumors, pretend you didn't. People enjoy getting reactions, when there are none its not very fun for them...