Boy and girl can remain as BFF or more than that? Need some opinions here :)

United States
November 15, 2012 6:16pm CST
I'm not sure about this but it made me wondered if you know. You might fall for your own besties. Any comments?
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
18 Nov 12
can say that each of us has come to this to fall in love with your best friend or best friend. I know it sucks, but I can tell you that there are two options one may have with the other you're not together. it all depends on whether they have feelings or experiencing them only one side. so you just have to decide. nice day!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
I think falling in love to your best friend is possible and also I think that best friends who have become lovers are the perfect pair. But not all the time these best friends could be more than what they are. I can attest to that. I had a best friend back in high school. We were pretty close that everybody thought that we were a couple. I didn't know if that is how it started but my bet friend then told me that he has feeling for me other than a friend. I turned him down 3x. For the next 3 years we remain friends. Then he told me for the 4th time that he really love me and asked me to try taking our friendship a step higher. Thinking that it might work or maybe I just got fed up putting him down, and so I allowed him to be my boyfriend. But during those 5 months, I never felt anything more than just friends. I realized that I just love him as a friend. And so I was honest enough with him and told him that things aren't working out as what he might have thought and that I feel that we are better off as friends. I know that have hurt him so much coz after the break up, he kept his distance. I did see him have piercing looks over my boyfriend when I had one. Thins weren't the same, but I just have to be honest with what I feel, right? Now, it has been 26 years, but we still remained friends. He would sometimes tease me just like when we were a couple, but we would just both laugh about it.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
It's always possible. But it's not that you will always fall for your best friends. It really depends on how attracted you are to each other. I have male buddies and I don't feel any romantic feelings for them. Of course, since I already have my boyfriend, I don't look anywhere else.
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
There are some instance that this can be possible in real life. Yes, there are some people that end up falling with their best friends. But this is a risky type of coming out. Having an intimate admiration and coming out of the friend zone can be difficult decision to make for it will vary a lot of factors, be it in a positive or negative out come. But it is also a good way to be honest with what you feel and being true not only to yourself but to your friend as well.
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
16 Nov 12
for me, it is possible u love your bff, if u have opposite bff. u already know him, so it make u easy and safe to be with him
• Greece
18 Nov 12
I would definitely fall for my best friend. Well, it actually depends how you see each other. But we usually fall for people whom we know cares about us and know the real us. Our best friend accepts us for who we are and being together and being comfortable with each other will make us fall for them but it may risk our friendship. As a grown up person, we can be mature enough to control our feelings and not fall for a person. But in a teenagers point of view, it's quite impossible for a boy and a girl to be bestfriend. :))