Dont Trust your friends soo much..

@tech40 I agree. Who is your friend one day, could be your enemy the next. Life is weird and so are people. I usually take a long time to open up and trust someone. I trust like 2 people in this whole world right now. My best friend in India and my best friend in Texas.

hi tech, it's not really easy to trust someone but it depends I have a bestfriend we are best of friends for more than a decades now and we almost know everything about each other but our secret are still a secrets until today. happy mylotting

You are absolutely right we should not trust too much on friends. Our best friend may our enemy. I also want to give advise to everyone dont trust to much on friends because now friends are selfish.

i know the feeling... my old bestfriend betrayed me... i didnt know that she was telling lies behind my back..

@tech40 How that can be true is if you hang out with someone and they decide to turn on you and then you see their true colors. True people in your life do not do that to you.

I don't trust my friends.

This can be true to a degree. A mortal enemy is someone who would kill you or risk being killed by you just to be brought into proximity to one another. Though it may feel that serious when you're in it, in most cases ain't nobody so mad they're going to kill anybody! On the other hand, yes your closest friends can become your most dire enemy because they know so much about you, they know where the tender spots are and how to get at your soft underbelly to cause the most emotional and mental anguish possible. Close friends also tend to be vindictive and nasty when they become enemies, sometimes their fury and hurt can know no bounds and they will stop at nothing to see your entire world burn to the ground. They suck that way, but the only other option is to never let anyone in for fear. That is no way to live either. So we build our fragile interpersonal relationships and we pray that no one will begin to throw stones at them. As you go along though you live and you learn, in the end you may just find that rarest of personal relationships, a lifelong friend, a friend through thick, thin, and whatever other shape it comes in. A friend through the blood and the mud. Who knew you when, knew you back then, and who can remind you if the need ever should arise, who you are.

That is highly possible , your best friend is the one that know your weakness and can truly hurt you at the ends of everything . The only person that truly know my secret is my best friend that is now my fiance but for my other besties I dont share any secret with them because I can share is with my fiance and my mother if I must tell someone .

Agree with you,i never share my secret to my best friend,i prefer talk to my parents,we didn't know our best friend habit,someday maybe there is a conflict with you,and he talk to everyone about your secrets.

True, while not trying to make us all suspicious of our friends, I have a workmate whose best friend stole and, get this, married his girlfriend... so yeah, point taken

As for me, i had my friend who i really trust when it comes to money, i trusted him so much that i let him handle my money from my Apartment rentals business. One day, he suddenly banished without a trace with my cash. Good thing it wasn't that much, BUT STILL its a hard earned money doesn't it? So I agree with you not to trust friends so much.

So perhaps I will not have a mortal enemy. That would be great for me. Have a nice day!

If he is really you're best friend, even if you have a misunderstanding and slowly drift apart or become your enemy, he will have a small amount of respect for you and will not be your worst enemy, just a normal enemy. He will not spill your secrets and won't pull you down. He will not just hangout with you or may not talk to you. That's if you've done your part being a good friend to him. You're right, you're friend can be your mortal enemy because he knows all your secrets and know a lot about you that he can use to put you down.

Someone once said: "Trust is good, but suspect it is better". We can choose who will be our friend, we need to remember that someone can be your best friend but you maybe are not his. A big hug to you.

That is why a lot of times you have to be careful with who you trust and let into your life as there are a lot of people who will turn it against you when they can. I have experienced this myself a time or two and it is rough. It would be nice if people could quit thinking they are better than someone, or know something more than another person and just learn to get along.

Very true and unfortunately I discovered this the hard way since 2 of them ran off with a huge sum of money that crumbled my financial status. Never ever trust other people with secrets and definitely money, that's for sure!

PErsonally i don have close or best friends, i expect them to betray me or break trusts one day.Hence my policies is never tell them things that are too damaging to me if they break the trusts.I believe every human being has a limit of trust ability. To entrust them to must responsibility beyond what they can bear is only asking for trouble.

Hi friend, you are right i agree with you. In our life we have some good friends and enemies. Most of us believe our friends and share our things with them. But we don't know when a friend turn as our enemy. In this unpredictable world anything will be possible. A good friend may turn as a worst enemy and our enemy may turn us our friend. We must be very careful while sharing our information with others. Don't believe all your friends. Some persons may pretend like a good friend for some sake and they will back stab us after finishing their requirement. This kind of pretending friends are fake persons. Honest enemy is far better than this kind of fake friends. We know that our enemy don't do any good things for us, but we don't know when this kind of fake friends will back stab us. This kind of pretending persons are really unpredictable and our enemy is far better than this kind of friends. In fact this kind of pretending friends are our first enemy and we must keep distance from this kind of persons. It is really hard to identify them, if you find this kind of pretending person keep distance from them and cut their friendship for life time.

Id say dont even trust family very much. I have been harmed more by family members than by friends.

Well, I agree with some of your opinions, I believe that some secrets are meant to be kept to yourself. If you share everything with a friend, maybe you will worry that if he or she will speak the secret to other people. But I think true friend will not do it. But do not trust woman too much. It is rather difficult for them to keep secret to themselves: they just need to let it out. I think it is humanity. Do not fight against humanity, you seldom win. Sometimes, if you are friends today, you may be competitors or enemy to each other one day, and you have different benefit to get. In this case, things may change. So do not change a friend into an enemy! I think we should still have confidence in friends, because friends are still important parts in our life, right?