Robbery
By chrystalia
@chrystalia (1208)
Tucson, Arizona
November 16, 2012 9:04pm CST
GRRR.
As many know, I recently had to leave my home and move into a travel trailer-- and I stored all my stuff in a storage unit. Because we have an extremely light population here, and almost no crime, and the storage shed is on the property, I just stuck a padlock on it. At any rate---
my trashy next door neighbor, which is a story all on its own, parties, and drinks, and neglects her kid, and entertains all kinds of local druggies etc. All the neighbors are constantly calling Child Protective services, and the sheriff, and her landlord is trying to evict her--I have been very ill for several weeks, with the flu and double pneumonia, so I hadn't had a chance to go fishing, or to photograph all the jewelry I needed to put on my Etsy site. So now that I am better, I went to the shed, intending to take the pictures, and then go fishing. The padlock was still on, but the hasp had been forced on the door-- and all my expensive fishing poles, all the finished jewelry (including stuff already posted on Etsy) and all my beading supplies were gone-- along with about half my stockpile of dried food.
I know you're thinking I'm a ditz for not keeping the jewelry in the trailer-- but this trailer is 26x8, and there was NO ROOM. I had 6 large boxes of jewelry supplies alone. The shed was packed all the way to the door, and now it's half empty. The old TV and all my books are still there, and my life jackets and other stuff--but all my good cookware, my craft and jewelry supplies and the finished jewelry are gone. The fishing poles alone were worth over 1000.00--we won't even getr into how much the jewelry and supplies were worth. I called the sheriff, and my insurance company, but the sheriff said with identifying marks and a picture inventory, I'll probably never recover anything. And the insurance company wants an inventory list as well, they sent out a claim investigator-- but of course I only get replacement value, at wholesale, for the supplies, and many of them AREN'T replaceable, because they were vintage-- and they can't even process the claim without an inventory list (and being an organized person, I had the inventory for each box taped to the box, so I could just grab the boxes I wanted. So now I have to try to re-create that inventory from memory. Since I have to try to describe, from memory, over 80 pieces of jewelry, I'm basically screwed.
But I am heartbroken about the fishing poles-- the other half loved his poles, and I loved mine. So now, I spent an hour and a half today moving every single thing into this trailer. I literally have a 1 foot wide path to the bathroom, the computer, and less than half the bed to sleep on. It is like living in a CLOSET.
I am going to go nuts. And I am ANGRY. Because this was a nice, quiet neighborhood until that trash moved in.
have you been robbed? Did you ever get your stuff back?
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11 responses
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
17 Nov 12
I'm so sorry you have to go through this. The lack of trust is the worst part--it used to be you could lock up stuff and it would be left alone. Your neighbors should start a phone campaign--every time an unsavory character enters your neighbor's place someone calls the cops. Eventually they'll get tired of coming out and maybe expedite her eviction.
That child's situation makes me angry. Protective services just keep putting kids back with bad parents then moan and cry when the kids are killed or worse. Two parents here were convicted on only one count after locking their child in a basement for a month where she lost 40 pounds from starvation--because the state couldn't prove 7 of the charges. The fact that even 1 charge was proven should put them in jail for years but they only got 6 months.
Well, aside from that rant, I don't see your etsy page link on your profile so could you send it to me? I know you can't list it here.
At least you have the photos of your stuff on etsy, or do you? Get busy on that inventory list! Being one of your newest friends, I don't know your previous circumstances but I'm sorry you had to leave your home and move. That's always a major trauma no matter how smoothly it goes or what the reason is.
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@allknowing (136442)
• India
17 Nov 12
Sad to hear about this chrystalia. No one can be trusted these days. I too learnt it the hard way. We had this girl whose future we had sponsored. We educated her and since she could not cope with whatever we wanted her to excel in, she was helping us around later. She was with us for 9 years and during that time she was a paragon of virtue - perfection personified. We spent for her marriage although we did not choose that boy for her - the nuns where her mother stayed, did. Even after marriage she would occasionally come over and do some chores for us. When I had that accident she was the one who took care of me in every which way and as a gesture we promised to build her a small house in the property her mother owned. I was dishing out money as and when I could. Apparently she could not wait to get the payments at my pace. She robbed my gold! Reporting to the police would only mean me running around in circles and she getting thrashed black and blue and jailed. She is no longer in my life but wisdom has dawned on me to the effect that circumstances change people and her new circumstances were that she was now living with a family of hooligans!!!
@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
17 Nov 12
I don't know, I can think of a few alternatives...none of them legal of course, but at least none of us would have to live with this trash around anymore. heck, my neighbors would probably be glad to help me -- they are suffering too.
@allknowing (136442)
• India
17 Nov 12
You are made of great stuff chrystalia and you will wade through this as well. I strongly believe in the saying 'What can't be cured has to be endured' as though there is any alternative left anyway!
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
17 Nov 12
Hi Chrystalia,
I am sorry that you are going through this! I only got robbed once and it was years ago. A woman whose son I babysat for came into my home and stole all my money. once I figured out who did it, I did get most of it back when I confronted her and threatened her with the police. It did not take away that invasive feeling. Make up your list the best that you can. It doesn't have to be perfect but at least get close to the value of the stuff. You will get some recovery but not what you lost unfortunately. I would buy a new and stronger lock and store my stuff back out there. You can't live like how you are describing. And next time,lable your boxes with the contents but number them as well.Make a list for yourself also....box #1 ...and list contents. It will help you know what box you are looking for and help you in situations such as this.
@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
17 Nov 12
I am using some money and renting a secure storage unit down the road today or tomorrow, as soon as I can get up the nerve to ask a neighbor to help me move the stuff. I have to-- it is intolerable, literally like living in a closet. I usually do have a double list like you suggested-- but only when I am moving. Once I moved the last time, a few months ago into this trailer, I had gotten rid of so much stuff it wasn't necessary-- and the inventory list on the boxes I left for simple convenience. There is one neighbor who is older, and nice-- I think I can talk myself into asking him, because he stops by and asks if I need anything at the store when he's going. I think he kind of knows that I can't deal with people at all, because he is quite old, and smart.
If I had been smart I would have just left the numbers on the boxes and kept the content lists with me-- then nobody would have known what was in the boxes. But since this kind of thing never used to happen here, before HER, all of us are still getting used to it, I guess.
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@Kashmeresmycat (6369)
• United States
18 Nov 12
Oh, I got sick to my stomach just reading all of this. I'm so, so sorry that this has happened to you. I know you think it was that woman but without proof there is nothing to be done. But, I have an idea for you because most of the time, the thief will return to the scene of the crime.
Do you have a video camera? And, is the shed in view of your trailer? If it is, I would carry out a bunch of boxes (empty of course) and pretend they are heavy. Put them all into the shed and carefully put the same type of lock back on. Make noise so people can here you. Then sit back, put on your video camera, and wait. You'll get your thief with proof on your camera.
I hope you get your items back, especially the fishing poles. Watch for these to be sold on Craigslist or Ebay...it's a good possibility, since they are worth so much, and you KNOW what they look like. Plus your jewelry.
@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
18 Nov 12
GOOD NEWS! and bad news, but still-- I just posted an update-- the sheriffs have been busy all day. I didn't get my stuff back, but I will be getting back my propane tanks that were stolen some time this morning. I was going to take them today, but decided to leave them with all the other evidence-- long story, read the other post I just put up...
My down the hill neighbor hid a camera in a hanging basket pointed at his front door before he went to visit his son yesterday--and it paid off. We had the sheriffs up there several times last night, because of the party she was having as usual-- but around 4 a.m. today, there she was on tape, crow barring his door, while her son held the flashlight. It has been a very busy day around here!.
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@allknowing (136442)
• India
18 Nov 12
My be a CCTV? You seem to be an expert at nabbing thieves Kash.... Grate ideas there!
@allknowing (136442)
• India
18 Nov 12
Typos, typos, typos! May be a CCTV? You seem to be an expert at nabbing thieves Kash.... Great ideas there!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
18 Nov 12
That's terrible crystalia! I have been stolen from but never to that extent! It's ridiculous to me when you work so hard for what you have and then some idiot just thinks they can take it. Burns me up!
Not many people actually keep the detailed inventory that their insurance requires or what the police need to have to find the stuff. I actually need to do a little of that myself.
@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
18 Nov 12
Well the worst thing for me is when I pack a box, I number it, and post an inventory on the box-- I always have, we moved a lot when I was a kid-- so there WERE inventory lists-- attached to the boxes. DITZ MOVE OF THE DAY. I left them there so when I went in to get specific supplies, I would only have to grab the one box I wanted. I always organized my jewelry supplies, because you have to when you have a lot-- it gets confusing otherwise, and you end up buying duplicate things.
Of course I wasn't thinking that that habit of leaving the list on the container gives a thief all the information they need to "shop". ...
Note to self: from now on, only the numbers will be on boxes-- the lists will be with my papers. Sometimes I can be dumb.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
19 Nov 12
Not dumb chrystalia. You shouldn't have to be so careful. We should be able to store something in a storage building or have something nice without worrying about someone thieving it. It is a shame that we can't in these times. It is a lesson learned and I will definitely take something from your experience.
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
I am sorry for what had happened to you. There are really bad people around who rob instead of working to earn. I understand how you feel right now.
I was also robbed about a few weeks ago. It was my newly acquired cellular phone from a mobile carrier. I was just taking a bath and I left the mobile phone in the bed. It was a kid who stole it. We found out who exactly stole it after a few hours of connecting the events here. You see, we are renting an up and down house. Downstairs is a canteen and computershop while we live upstairs. This kid who stole is only thirteen years old so I can't sue him. He asked to use the comfort room but no one noticed that he went upstairs in our room. We asked him and he said that he did get it! He sell it at only a few pesos and it was returned after a few days because the guy who bought it closed his store. The kids father I think did pay the man who bought the stolen cell phone. Whatever, I am glad the phone was returned!
I hope you could find justice
@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
17 Nov 12
I'm glad you got your phone back, at least-- why couldn't you have the kid arrested? here, kids get arrested and (hopefully) put in Juvenile detention for committing crimes-- and they should be. Unless they find out very quickly that it's wrong and it's not worth the trouble you get in, they keep doing things like this.
When I was a kid, one of the kids in my class stole a candy bar-- I was about 8, so was he. His dad marched him into the grocery store, made him walk up to the clerk and say in a nice loud voice _I am a thief, I stole this candy. The manager yelled at him, the clerk yelled at him, the police came, and they "sentenced" him to stand in front of the store for an hour with a sign around his neck that said I Am a Thief.
He never did it again. And it was months before any of us would hang around with him-- not because our parents told us not to (mine didn't care about anything), but because WE didn't want to be seen with a thief.
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
I forgot to mention that the sim card wasn't recovered and it still cost 250pesos plus fare expenses if I'm going to have it replaced.
You can't arrst kids here but they can be under the custody of local Department of Social Welfare and Development (DSWD). But they do not hold the kids like being prisoned or hold in a place. There is nothing like that here. DSWD just give parents a seminar on something or they turn the kids under custody of baranggay officials. I don't see any justice there because they still go home and do regular stuff. When they do another crime, the cycle is still the same. They can't hold them even for just a few hours for a lesson
@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
17 Nov 12
that is a horrible system-- I'm sorry you have that kind of a system where you are. How do they expect kids to grow up honest? Good grief. And you shouldn't have to replace the SIM card yourself-- here, the father would be held responsible, or the guy that bought the stolen phone. If they didn't have money, the state government has funds that compensate victims, though they don't give you much.
Our Child Protective Services here are a joke. They take kids away from abusive parents, which is good-- then they give the kid back to the abusive parents. Our police handle kids who commit crimes, and our CPS handles kids who are in bad homes or abandoned. Neither system works very well, though, because the people themselves, at least a lot of them, try to blame a child's behavior on the parents, or the schools or someone else instead of holding the child accountable-- and once they're 8 or 9, they are old enough to know right from wrong, and they should be held at least partially responsible for what they do. Unless a whole community agrees to treat things like what happened to you seriously, things don't change.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
That is terrible, I am sorry to hear that. It is one of the worst things to be robbed by your very own neighbor. You can't even file charges unless you get some proof.
@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
17 Nov 12
well, as of this morning, things are improving. A neighbor down the street got broken into late late last night while he was out of town-- but he had installed a security system. When he got back, he called the sheriff right away, and there she was ON TAPE WITH HER KID breaking the doorknob with a crowbar-- so the sheriff comes up the road. I flagged him down, I was calling 911-- because the chains had been snipped on my spare propane tanks, and they were gone. He had me follow him up the hill, and there were MY tanks-- attached to HER trailer. The sheriff had a warrant, due to the neighbor's tape, in less than half an hour-- when they searched the house, there was a LOT of stuff people had reported stolen. None of mine, other than the propane tanks. But she got taken to jail, we are both pressing charges, and her kid is back with the state AGAIN. Unfortunately, this means I will have to deal with a court at some point-- not a good thing for me.
But for the moment, she's in jail, and the landlord up there is already trying to get a judge to certify the eviction, since in this county it's automatic if there is a crime involved. So with any luck, her stuff will be long gone when she gets out, and so will she.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
19 Nov 12
you are duly diligent and thwarted the robbery ,and its good to see you do that and its a great move for sure and be happy for it
@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
19 Nov 12
I am happy, as long as she stays in jail, and the neighborhood quiet down again. I like it when things are quiet.
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
What a bad luck! I also experienced being robbed but not that much but the sad thing is i lost all my important documents. and even though it's just a little amount but the thing is i need to get back all the important things that i had. But i do believe that karma will punish them. those criminals deserves to be punished.
@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
17 Nov 12
I'm glad I didn't lose my important papers-- those were in here with me. It would be a real pain to replace a lot of them, too. Yep, Karma --- I hope Karma works well and fast, because the law certainly won't.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
17 Nov 12
So sorry this has happened to you.. I hope you have contacted the police there and reported this.
@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
17 Nov 12
Oh, yes, the sheriffs have been here several times in the past few days-- sometimes called by me, others by the other neighbors. We seemed to have decided without having a meeting or anything that she is GOING, and that's it. It may take a bit, but we are all on the same page as far as I can tell. The closer neighbors have stopped by to check up on me as well-- I know they are being kind, and I appreciate it, but it is making my panic attacks much more frequent, and much worse.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
17 Nov 12
I am sorry to hear this story. and to your business, too. I was not robbed by i had been pickpocketed by a "blind woman". See that's very ironic. I was riding on a motobike, a backrider. We stopped at the red traffic light and of course people will cross because it's pedestrian go. suddenly, a woman bumped at our motorbike. She did not see us. Then I knew she's blind. I kindly told her "Please be careful next time, don't you have any companion to help you cross the road". The woman just moved away from our motorbike, using her crane to go back to the island. Then we went on, Go for the vehicles. I noticed that my jacket is open and i don't have my cp anymore. LOL. I suspect that the woman was not really blind she's just pretending to be one. oopsies. wrong for me
@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
17 Nov 12
Yep-- that's a common trick actually, that people fall for frequently here-- it happens a lot in cities like New York and L.A. Don't feel bad --- most people probably would have believed she was blind as well.