Your first love, Is it good or bad??

Yemen
November 16, 2012 11:04pm CST
We hear a lot about the first love, and sometimes we go through, but most of the time never persist & break down. Some people either hate love or like it more & more. So do you experience your first love? Is it go up or down? do you advice other to go through & try to fall in love for the first time what ever the result will be?
13 responses
@zionl0l (68)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
my first love was not that good.. i really thought that she love me but the truth is she love someone else.. our relationship lasted for 4 or 5 months i think.. but i was thankful because that experience made me a stronger and a more better person..
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• United States
17 Nov 12
Fortunately, I married the first person that I ever fell in love with and we will have our 10 year anniversary in February. I had boyfriends before him and I even had a child with someone that I thought that I loved before I met my husband. I never knew what real love was like until I met him. Yes, there were men that I "loved" before him, but no one that I ever had an IN LOVE with feeling the way that I do with my husband. I am thankful for him every day of my life!
• Yemen
17 Nov 12
Good for you, keep in your way.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
18 Nov 12
I am engaged to my first love , I think no love is sweeter than first love . If we should ever part I would still love this guy with all my heart and soul . There will always be a first time .
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
18 Nov 12
I always experienced bad luck with my love life. The girls I fell in love with never love me back, they either fall in love with someone else, or they simply use me for money. So, besides I got heartbreak, I don't have faith in myself, and in love too. About my first love, I totally disappointed at it, and I don't know if I can go through another love again.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
18 Nov 12
the first love is good and we need to relish it for quite a long time in our life ideally
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 12
my first is not so good i think, maybe that time i still study . but now is the 3rd. hoping that this is the right guy
@sajujohn (1005)
• India
17 Nov 12
First of all thanks alot for starting this situation. To be honest only recently I lost my first love and I am sure it will be my last also. I am saying not because I hate love but because the fatc still I love her so much. And obviously I cannot hate her as she is so sweet. Only she said to me that she doesn't love me; I have never said that to her. Therefore I have decided to love her, only love her to my maximum even though she hates me a lot. This is because I have taken a decision to love only one person and I did. Now I cannot forget her at all. It's only my bad that she didn't loved me. Anyway I will not remember her as the one who broke my heart but the one who taught me to live with a broken heart.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
17 Nov 12
It was a bad experience and I would not call it love at all. It's more about how men can get what they want by manipulating girls/women.
• India
17 Nov 12
Hello, It was a great experience. I can remember that day when she accept my proposal..Oh! really I was very happy and did not sleep whole night and only think about her. But I can not remember properly our break up reasons now. And now I am very happy with my present girl friend and can not remember properly her face and totally forget her. But in my views everyone needed first love experience. My first love has been finished within 4-5 months. But till now I can not forget some moments which we spent together. Though it can not be describe within few words but I try to focus some experience about my first love. As you know, I can not remember our reasons of break up. But I can remember the moment when she accept me. That is all. Now your turn to understand my few words. Thank you.
• China
17 Nov 12
My first love I think is a hurt for me,because that is the first time I fall in love with somebody,and I had given my whole heart out.
• Greece
18 Nov 12
I don't know if I've already been in love. But my first experience of heartbreak is so hurtful that I lost trust in love. It was not a serious relationship at least on his part. We lasted only for a week, no kisses (seriously!) and holding hands. We only went out around three times. But I was so upset when we broke up and he found a new girl so fast. I was convinced that he cheated on me. And I couldn't move on for 2 years. When i meet this new guy, I started liking guys again and i think i love this guy although he is a player. That's when i realize that I'm ready to like/love someone again and I've move on from my previous heartache. Because I'm willing to cry and get hurt again. I think we shouldn't be afraid of loving just because of a bad experience. If we decided to love, we should be prepared to get hurt. That's part of life. :)) We should get up, move on and start again.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
My first love was good. . Our relationship was smooth sailing. Never been in down situation. It lasted for only 6 months,and it shaped and cheered the last chapter of my teenage life. I broke up with him coz I went to college and I want to concentrate on my studies.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
18 Nov 12
Mine is down. I am glad it broke down. LOL, I see him now, and how he deals with his wife, I could say that I am glad I am not her. Good thing that I did not marry this first love otherwise, I will be in very desperate and helpless situation. I am glad she forced him to marry her. Yes, she seduced him and told him that she's pregnant so they got married. I was left, boo hoooo, tears. but now I am glad she saved me from him. Whew... he is not worth it. ;)