Rehashing Our Damaged Relationship

I hope that you and your boyfriend can work things out. It seems like you both are going through a really tough time. Would it be possible for you and him to go to couples counseling. If you both are willing to apply what you learn that could improve your relationship.

My suggestion is to make a relationship work one of you should step down and should step up in every problem. Take turns on solving problem. In time of argument if one of you is angry the other should stay calm. Love is not meant to be easy, holding on and keep making each other better is how you guys will lose the hurting you feel.

It is really hard when you both hide the problems away instead of talking about them. I definitely think communication in a relationship is key. It is so important to talk with each other about anything and especially issues within the relationship... It is healthy and good to talk about things like this together. I hope you both can work on talking it out, you will get a lot more accomplished if you can! =) Nothing really gets resolved with yelling and screaming at each other when something is wrong... I think you already know what you need to do to better things between the two of you! I hope you find the strength to do it, there is no reason to end the relationship though. This can be fixed!

Problem is no relationship can be perfect. Always their will be something with one or the other one. Sometimes with both at the same time. We just have to get through those times. And show the love to one another.

If everybody let the truth to be known, most of us, if not everyone would like certain changes in their lives. Every friendship, relationship every marriage needs to evolve. To keep a relationship active, alive and going forward - and this is the responsibility of both individuals - both partners must take part in new experiences, share feelings, talk about something, plan things and share common dreams. But most often than not, our mates are held responsible and blamed when these changes don't take place. It seems like our partners don't hear our complaints, don't take a damn of our suggestions, don't even read our minds and body languages. That is because we wait for them to act. To make our relationship better, we should take the initiative. PRIDE, false pride specifically, is the prominent reason why we don't make the first move. Break patterns, take the guts to make the first move, have that mutual openness and stimulate the passion in your partner for a lasting, tender love and companionship.

It sounds good that you are thinking this way .One from each relationship should be compromising and forgiving,you can always start from saying 'sorry'. Be careful that this should not become a pattern or trend in your case! Check whether he also accepts his fault or mistake.Also make promises to each other that you both will not bring your 'big ego' in between the relation.Better try this...my mantra is 'FORGIVE & FORGET'! Keep posting...eagerly waiting for your positive response.

If this is a recurring problem, and you both want to change the way you deal wit it, then get together and discuss a plan of action when you are both calm and happy. Agree to have a discussion without interrupting and to listen, and work out a way of alerting yourselves to an impending problem. Perhaps you could try a secret word that one of you can say when you notice the pattern emerging. It should stop you both in your tracks and allow you to look at what is happening and change your next actions.

very nice is when you know you're loved because it is the most important. I think you need to find a compromise to have misunderstandings. each with a different character each has its positive and negative qualities, and each seeks to avoid hurting other but sometimes these situations. Yet I hope to find a a compromise solution. nice day!

Most of us are experiencing such things in having a relationship. it can't be helped and always there. It is a factor that anyone involved in having relationship must pass through this.It is just a trial for both of you.If you really love each other then try to work it out.Having a calm conversation maybe a good move.Talk to him,tell him what you really feel. Also try to understand him.Sometimes it doesn't matter who really is in fault,sometimes one just need to step down and apologize.

One must be understanding of the other persons feelings. When you're in a relationship, you're going to find things that you don't like about your partner and there will be things your partner won't like about you. Once you understand that you and your partner are not perfect, you can then go on from there to figure out how to deal with the person's "quirks." Also, one must have communication, be open and honest with each other about the things that upsets each other.