Afraid for Love to fade...to tell or not to tell?

@grace147 (223)
Philippines
November 18, 2012 8:58pm CST
"Afraid for love to fade before it can come true", is just one of the famous lines from the song of Jose Mari Chan - a famous singer song writer. It just came in my attention today, while managing my store - two young men just dropped by the store and took their snacks. As they have their refreshment, i overheard it that they were discussing whether to tell or not tell, to express or not to express their feelings to the person the admire the most. Other guy said, he value more friendship because he is afraid that if he expressed what he felt he might lost her and likewise the friendship. He can sacrifice his love than taking the risk. On the other hand, the other guy shared his opinion too, and that for me him will express and tell his girl friend that he love her more than just an ordinary friend because in his opinion it is a form of betrayal and dishonestly if he kept what he truly feels. He can sacrifice the pain on the possibility of losing her but he can not definitely lie to his feeling and be dishonest to the girl for he believes that angry will fade in time with a persistent love. How about you - if you were on their shoe, to tell or not to tell? Afraid or take the risk?
3 responses
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
I think it would be hard if you are in that situation. Knowing the risk that you might actually lose the one you love. But I think it is best to tell her what you really feel.And i agree to the second guy that being dishonest is not a good thing to start with.Maybe the girl also likes him and just waiting for him to start the move.
@grace147 (223)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
hi jeztrose, Much appreciated your response. Yah, i agree with you too. from the girl point stand of view , I would appreciate if my boy friend is honest on his feelings towards me and not pretend that we are just normal friends.
@grace147 (223)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
hi jeztrose, Much appreciated your response. Yah, i agree with you too. from the girl point stand of view , I would appreciate if my boy friend is honest on his feelings towards me and not pretend that we are just normal friends.
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
for me i am going to tell what i feel its better to have a hope that i will be happy rather than regret it one day that i have a chance to tell what i feel and i just didn't grab the chance, they say friendship is a good foundation of love
@grace147 (223)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
Hi passion4fassion, Much appreciated your views. I guess the consensus of majority would be - to tell. As the saying, to pain no gain, or no guts no glory. have a nice day.
@oscavu (10)
19 Nov 12
For me i will definitely tell her once am sure it is love am having for her and not just being infatuated with her. At least that way if things go wrong, i can say i tried.
@grace147 (223)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
hi osvau, thanks for the response. you have a point too for at least we wont be wondering for the rest of our life think the "what if".. have a great day ahead.