Where to Date ??

November 19, 2012 3:39am CST
Hey Peeps , I am soon going to date a girl i knew for about an year but we never met , Just need few tips on where should i date with her ? A coffee Shop , A Restaurant , Candle Light Dinner , Long Drive or Any other Suggestions . Do let me know your ideas !
11 responses
@blogandme (379)
• Indonesia
19 Nov 12
never meet, it mean first date. talk to your girlfriend to get somethink about her life. I recomend you candle light dinner in first date, its romantic taste. but, you must 'fishing' information about her. good luck
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
well better to surprise her that do what she want instantly i mean be creative its first time so it should be memorable
19 Nov 12
Yeah Candle light dinner should be a good idea and romantic as well .. Still trying to figure out maybe something better pops up !
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
19 Nov 12
I would say a coffee or a tea place, or a cozy little restaurant... it could be a fast food place, but not something too posh or too busy... because you wanna talk and have a calm environment. A posh restaurant or a candle-light dinner might be too much for a first date, leave that for a little bit later, if everything turns out well. Then you could go for a walk. A long drive, for me, is not a good idea, either, because it's just driving, and it can be a little bit boring. Don't go to watch a movie, either, as a first date, because then you can't really talk and get to know each other more. Usually a crazy first date is a bad idea... like a rock concert or skydiving... but if the girl is a really go-with-the-flow, adventurous, non-conmformist person who's not at all mushy and sappy and romantic, it can work... but otherwise no.
• United States
25 Nov 12
True! A movie for a first date is not a great idea. You want to spend time together, not face a screen together. If you are worried about uncomfortable pauses or want to do something memorable, maybe a relaxed activity like playing a board game or mini-golf could work well.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
29 Nov 12
I like when the guy picks me up at home with his car and takes me to a nice restaurant, he doesn't have to spend crazy money on me bur if he is cheap and took me to a place like mc donald's that would be over I guess, plus I'd never date a non vegan. But being nice to take to a beautiful place and show some effort is enough.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
30 Nov 12
What would you go & do if you WEREN'T going on a date?
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
picnic in the lake side with flower will be amazing i am sure you will get yes if your waiting that word for so long
19 Nov 12
Great Idea As well !
• Philippines
30 Nov 12
If that girl means someone special to you then think of a date that will be a memorable to both of you. Every girl likes to be chased of something like a fairy tale do come true that atlast she found her prince. Anywhere you bring her is just a place, the more important is the moment you will share.
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
hi kam, Welcome to mylot! It is important to know first where is the place she wants to be I mean if she likes a restaurant or maybe she is a nature lover so you can impress her. happy mylotting keep on posting
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
That would be great and exciting. I think you must look for some place that is so romantic and solemn. Solemn in the sense that you can talk comfortably and peacefully. Its like you are the only persons in the world with very nice views in the surroundings.It would be a memorable date for her.
@Hrozean (116)
• United States
26 Nov 12
Coffee Shop or Restaurant would be best. Candle Light Dinner and a long drive seem to have to many expectations. Yes your on a date but the latter seem to be for anniversary or a committed relationship. Can't go wrong with dinner and a movie. Also if you both enjoy casual drinking a bar may be a good non pressuring place.
• United States
25 Nov 12
Wow, a whole year without meeting? I think that you should have a few stages of meetings if possible. Since you have been talking, but this will be your first time meeting in person, you want to make sure that the environment is not so formal that it won't be comfortable. You are getting used to sharing physical space, so it can be a little different. But definitely, you should plan on having a nice dinner, maybe a long walk in the park in between, and maybe finish the night at a coffee shop or bar depending on your tastes.
@margies (128)
• Indonesia
24 Nov 12
maybe you can take her to cinema , and after that u can take her to the coffe shop, and discuss and ask her how she feel about the film? from that, u can make some topic to share and discuss with her. so the situation between u and her not stiff and awkward