how long can I keep on waiting?

Hi there. It is really so hard to answer some of your questions in here because I believe the best person to answer those is YOU. I think you just have to be sure of your feelings and might of his feelings as well for you too. Just take your time. Don't be in a hurry. Time will always be precious with your love ones. So just take it slow. But if you are really in an eager feeling to know, then ask him. But for me it's much better if he will be the one who's going to have the first move.

There can be several reasons for that: * he might have found someone else * he might have feelings for you but is afraid tell it to you * he might be unsure of his feelings Before getting into an intimate relationship conversation with him, ask him why he has changed his attitude towards you. Ask him if you have done anything that might have hurt him without you realizing. One advice: If ever he really stops being his "old self", I think it is about time for you to move on and no longer think of having him as your boyfriend. Not worth your time.

To be honest, you just putting life in misery and miserable. You better make him talk with his mouth by asking him personally or if you shy, better put away this feeling from your head that you are special to him. I'm afraid one day he will just say that he never meant that he loves you. He can simply says he treat you special cause he sees you look so nice and not more than just a friend treatment. So, what will you feel at that time? Having a feeling without confirmation like you experience now is very dangerous and can real hurt you when the negative outcomes turn to be true.

I am a self confessed coward when it comes to this. No guts at all to confront a guy or even tell what I feel if I like or love someone. One experience I had is with a friend, it took for him 4 years before he confessed what he feels for me. Too bad I cannot give back that love because I do not feel the same towards him. If you have a strong feeling that he loves you and you are not afraid of rejection. Then go and tell him what you feel or ask him if he likes you. But if you are too scared to know if something negative will be the answer then I do think it is better not to do it. But just try to make hiim feel that you like him. About his sudden change, I think that he feels uneasy and is trying to forget about his feelings for you that is why he acts like that. It can also be that he likes someone else and he cannot tell you because he feels you also have feelings for him, and if you will learn about him liking somoene else you may get hurt.