Fall in love on the basis of chatting

These days there is chatting in mobile love, chatting in YM love, love via facebook, i had a renter, her daughter always went to our roof, talked with some one for hours, she told our daughter in law that he has a lover, whom he met via a miscall; one day she flew with him, we don't know where she is now..

sureka, it is really hard to find a real love in online. I don't think love without seeing is a stupid activity, because real love is not depending upon the physical look, it is based on the pure heart, so we can fall in love without seeing a person based on his character, behavior and activities, but we must be very careful while dealing with such kind of love, we must be bold and face any issues if we are loving a person without seeing them

I think it is possible to fall in love through chatting. Actually sometimes it's better because you will say more about yourself when you are writing than when you are actually "dating" and trying to put on a good show for someone. I do not know that I would trust anyone who I met chatting though - I like to see their eyes! It would be easier to lie to someone through chatting I guess too! But I will not be falling in love so I have nothing to worry about!

hi surekha, I got lot of friends who's been in that situation sadly no one of them become successful I believe you can't tell where you will meet your love it can be in real life, through chatting, common friends etc. When we love someone we all become stupid it's all about taking risk and trusting one another it sad that some people took advantage on it. happy mylotting

I don't know about that. But some people are capable of falling in love through technology. I have one experience that a girl had fallen in love with me through chat and text messaging. At first, I was surprised that she was developed that deep to me. But then she understood and we became friends still. Love can start at chatting but not end in chatting also.

In chatting you can be anyone and the person on the other line can be anyone you dream of. But love moves in mysterious ways. and maybe Love moved between their ways. We can not say that it is good or bad, because we are not in their position. I can fall in love in chatting why not, if love has find it's way between us.

I don't want anyone to get mad at me but I think "falling in love" on fb or any other web based site is ridiculous. We have to know that we can be anyone we want on the internet and don't have to be honest about anything. There is no way for us to find out the truth about anyone. I could say I'm a dr, lawyer or anything I want to be. I hope that person smartens up and sees the light. Just so ridiculous!

Yes I am agree. it is madness. I read news in paper that a girl fall in love on the basis of chatting. When they decide to meet with each other the man is 65 year old. Think the condition of girl after seeing her sweet heart.

yes of course, how can we believe some one like that, even if we know the person from many years face to face still it is difficult to assess ones mentality. Then how come we believe an online person ? We can chat anything as we like loving and caring type but actual person may be different. Now a days even a child wont believe us just like that. And of course everything depends on the people who are into in. its not that they are unaware of these circumstances but still they do it.

falling in love without seeing each other in person is just an emotional response to a superstitious imagination about the other person you have not met. Make friends with social networks but should not go beyond that.

yes, because of that stupidity i already get hurt. it happen about 5 years ago, just seeing my other friends already have their couple, make me want one too. so, i fall in the trap, after 3 month , he just missing. then i learn the lesson, dont easily trust people if u not meet them first. because i know there still have some people success in their relationship even they start from chatting. it just, dont put 100% before u meet and know that people

It's too early to decide the love on the basis of chatting only. You know that person only what he said on chat, it maybe possible that that she only glorify artificial things about her. But it still depends on the situation if they are calling each other or videocall. I met my boyfriend online and we became bf/gf online until we meet and know each other better. I love him even we don't meet and he is the same too. And now our relationship is getting stronger.

Hello there! Well, love can be very confusing sometimes, isn't it? It just hits you without asking. I find it really strange how people can fall in love online though. It's may be not real love, it could be an illusion - don't you think? People simetimes fall in love with characters not real people.

I believe that love can grow anywhere either through facebook or other way. Love can grow with more time chatting to recognize each other. But to decide to marry the one we love it was not possible just through chatting without meeting in person.

It's not stupidity to fall in love in such ways, my friend. If the fate comes to both lovers. There is no reason they afraid to fall in love even if they are still not seeing each other personally. Most people nowadays meeting online and be partner in the future...

Well, my husband and I met on the internet eleven years ago. We spent some time talking to one another both on the computer and later on the phone before we had the opportunity to meet in person. I knew that I loved him before we did ever have the opportunity to meet in person. The reason that I knew that he was the person that I would be spending the rest of my life with is because of the fact that he was so very honest with me where many people in my past weren't so honest to me. However, I don't think that I would be able to be in a long-distance relationship.

The concept of falling in love usually has to do with meeting someone. I am definitely not an expert on social dating or dating in general, but I believe it needs to process of meeting face to face whether two people meet each other for the first time or not. With the rise of social networks and dating websites, many seem to have been misguided on the idea of falling in love. Just because two people have a good time chatting does not lead to anything if they have not met each other. It's like a teenage type of mindset or unrealistic hope. One person may not realize that the other could be lying or in the worse case scenario, a perpetrator looking for a victim (the chance of this one is pretty slim).

Even I have read such stories but I can't understand how it is possible? And if it is possible then how far it will hold true, since we don't know whether the person who say he/she loves her/him is really serious about it? What I feel when there is difficult for many people to fall in love when they meet each other personally then how other can do it, I mean fall in Love by doing chatting at facebook or online. Any way those who have fallen in love while doing chatting on Facebook, I can only say to them is - "ALL THE BEST"

This discussion seems like you would be describing me and my boyfriend lol to answer you, yes, I know a lot of people doubt this kind of love, but I believe in it. Just because I have experienced it. You know love at first sight? what makes you think it cant be same 'at sight' love when you meet someone on facebook and look their photos/start to know more about them? and then you talk, you see each other on cam, you make videos, send photos, sms, yes, it starts to become part of your life that person, so you miss them if you don't hear from them all day, at least I do, I've been with my boyfriend n a ldr for 11 months so far and we plan to meet and really believe his love is genuine as much as mine is. If any our 'meeting' will only put the closeness part to it and complete this love we feel, I hope. :)

I do feel people can fall in love just by speaking to each other over the web. It is possible and there nothing abnormal about it. Falling in love doesn't has anything to do with seeing each other.