How I wish that if I fall in love again, I would never feel the pain again.

Falling in love is moment when we are too vulnerable about things. We don't care about other people but only the one person we fall in love with. But we are easily hurt too when that person shows things that make sad. When I was a teenager and got a crush on someone, I felt like I loved him already and I can do all the household chores without complaining whenever I saw him. I would never snap at anyone who would say rude comments to me because I am very happy inside. SO funny to remember now. But I know what you mean when you say that as well that we you fall in love again... you would like it... not to feel the pain again, but love and pain (being hurt) goes together my friend, you can't just have love only.. it always goes with the latter. I just hope and pray though that when you fall in love again.. you're both ready to be hurt as well but instead of breaking apart.. you two instead make it stronger! Happy day still and happy mylotting.

I was married for almost 12 years. Divorced now. I dont think that pain every goes away. Then I see the son I got from that marriage and the pain goes away. For a few. Take care there. See you here soon.

hi, that is everyone's wish when they went from pain in relationship,even me i came from pain in my past relationship and i am wishing and hoping that when i fall in love again i don't want to experience and feel this again that is why most of broken hearted person afraid to love again because of the pain.

They say if you fall in love be ready to get hurt, and I say to them bring it on! lol. I have been hurt many times, cried a thousand tears and been miserable after break up but I never lose hope. Those pain and experiences every after break up made me strong and how tough I am today. I know that those relationships that ended will lead me to the right man soon so, I'll just chill out. Being hurt really comes to a point even when you are in love, Nobody is perfect and so relationships are, we go through some petty lover's quarrel and then kiss and make up. It only proves how strong is the two of you on handling your relationship. I am not saying that we need to give our partners more pain, it is not healthy that we do it on a regular basis lol. We just need to deal with it and talk about it so that we can find solutions and let those anger subside. When I fall in love again, I know there are trials that I will be encountering and pain is no exception for that but I know I can get through with it with the help of my future partner :)

It's difficult to fall in love without pain. Because if we fall in love, we expect too much.Therefore if we things didn't turn out as expected, we get hurt and disappointed. Maybe, we should just love and don't expect anything which is difficult as when we enter in one relationship, even admit it or not, there is expectation. But in order to be happy, we should just learn how to enjoy and love with all our heart, and forget all the pains that will come after as there is no easy thing in this world. If you want tot be happy, you have to work hard for it.

What can i say you was inlove totally and this guy and was maybe was not inlove with you because i am in a relationship and everything is going well this guy even love me more thaen i love and care for him.... i can see it because he has prove it in a thousand ways... but really and truely i love my sugar...

I too wish hurt and pain were not a part of love. However, if things were never ever to get "so bad," how would we appreciate when they are all "so good?" I just accept that heartache is one of the by-products of love or risking love. Be a Risk Taker. There truly are amazing rewards. Decide how much hurt you can take, like what's reasonable for the love risk you are taking. Seek the balance in it all. Know that giving (and receiving!) is a huge part of loving and living. And don't be afraid to love without getting something in return. You never know how and when your return on investment will come...

How I wish I also been in love now, but everything falls into fate. Let destiny decide for you as God has plan a better one for you.

With learning and getting together to a whole different human being there are always time to adjust and also with that: the pain. It's just normal, I don't remember a 100% painless relationship, even when we don't mean sometimes we hurt other people for just not knowing they were expecting or thinking we capable of something.

We all want to have a perfect relationship- be it with friends or our with our own partners. But along every relationship are trials which might hurt us in a way. But this should not weaken us, but should give us strength to become a better person not only for the people around us but for us as well. Do not be afraid to love because you fear of getting hurt. It happens to everyone. Just don't forget to love yourself above others.

We all want that when we have been heartbroken. But love has no conditions nor guarantees. You must just learn to get used to whatever might go wrong when you fall in love again and again.... Like they say, at first everything is beautiful, but as time goes by things changes. That is why they say ;' Enjoy the moment while it lasts' Tomorrow will take care of itself. :)

For me, that's the essence of love. We hurt so much every time we fell in love because we are investing too much emotions into it. We aren't hurt that much if we do not love that much. I cannot say that if you will love again you will not get hurt in any form cause pain is the package of love. Everybody feels pain in every relationship.

Unfortunately, you cannot separate the two. In loving, there is always the risk of being hurt. But as they say, "it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all". Keep on loving and living!

I guess getting hurt is always part of falling in love. But this will always up to you. You may choose to dwell in pain and feel it or just ignore it and focus on the things about love that is making smile, giggle and laugh. I used to ask the same question in mind but realised that being cynical about love won't help me in finding the right one. I have been hurt a lot of times. I have bee in and out of relationships so many times that I couldn't remember how many relationships I already had. The thing is, I didn't let those pains and sad memories stopped me from finding my happily ever after. And now that I found it I will keep it and enjoy it.

as I know God creates everything in pairs: men-women, brave-afraid, day-night, black-white and of course happiness-sadness. both are created in one package so we cant seperate them away. falling in love will make us happy and bring hapiness but the wirld wont be beautiful forever. the sky wont be blueabd bright forever. it sometimes turns grey or dark. it signs that maybe there will be a storm. but God promised us beautiful rainbow after hard rain. so we shouldnt desparate. if you fall in love, just enjoy it. breath of love breeze. but keep fighting and optimistic when it hurts you someday. Gibran said come to love wings though swords are hiding behind that wings then they may hurt you or kill you. we need saadness to understand what happiness is. we need sun and rain to see beautiful rainbow..what do you think? :)

Love and pain are always there,no matter what you do, thatsh life. all we need to do is to just go with the flow. There are reasons on why we need to deal with pain. Being inlove is indeed a wonderful thing.but you must take the risk that pain is always there.

The person that makes us happy , are the very person to make us sad and lonely. He is our sole source of happiness , yet so ironic because they can be the very source of our agony. It is so beautiful to be in love , as if you are always in the clouds but along with this beautiful feeling is the pain that is killing. I don't know , though how painful it is , still we never get tired of loving him. I don't know if there is something unscrewed , but that is how i love him. They said loving is madness . When you're in the peak of pain , you will say enough but after expressing those , it's like a magic as if nothing happens .You tend to forget and forgive those pains without even him asking it. Love moves in a very mysterious ways.