Each post and discussion have the meaning in it

@Hatley I do hope your okay now too. I would have to agree with raja that you are one of the most kindest person I've met here and also you have taught me a lot as well. I wouldn't dare disrespect anyone but sometimes I also hurt others, unconsciously, because I'm always on the silly side of things.

Hatley thanks and even I have seen that some people have the habit of just criticizing other rather then ractifying them. And you are right why we should bother if someone disagree with what we have said or what we want to say? Let go ahead and put before our views. There is a saying Give Respect and Take Respect. So if other do not respect us then why we should respectthem?

When we do so then surely we will have the good relationship between each members. It is always easy to criticize but to praise someone work we need to have brave heart and understanding too. Thanks for sharing your views

But many time most of us drop in here to take part in only those discussion they like it or they think they can respond it back nicely.

i guess doesn't need to be friends to have discussion its about the topic as long as you like it you are interested just drop in and join

maybe what she means is if someone doesnt like the topic, then find another topic where you are comfortable to discuss with.

That is indeed what we should do but it is not what is stated in the topic. Not liking and not afreeing are two entirely different things and a discussion will only take place when there are exchanges of oopinion, not when people all agree to the same thing

Yes Vernac I mean to say the same thing and my friend mysdianait I mean the same thing. To tell you frankly I read the topic my friend post here but respond back only those which I feel like and want to respond.

The best way is what you have mention be calm, think over and then respond back to what other says. But sometime this formula does not work, then I think it is better to move ourself away from the discussion as such

I too also do the same thing. In other words I respect what other have written but never criticize what they have written. It is always better cooly go to another post and comment on them.

You are correct in this world no single person is like other person, each one is unique in their nature and each have different thinking and views on each and every subject. Hence when they argue or give their views we find each person views differ with each other.

We know that Mylot is the free site to express each and every person views on the various post on different subject that being posted here. But when we are expressing or giving our views we must also see that we does not try to hurt them by way of our response.

Each and every person have got the free time in their life and this does not mean that they should criticize other. They must keep in mind that as a human being each person has got the feeling and one must never try to break or hurt other person feeling. Instead if some one makes the mistake try to ractify it.

My friend jenny 1015 receiving negative comment on what we have written is fine but criticizing what we have written it's hurt. I suggest when someone give the negative comment on any other member post it would be nice of them if they give them the suggestion also like if they find some mistake in the write up or if they feel that some changes are required and so on. We know each and every member will have the different opinion on the same subject as such and this is but natural since each person have their own way of thinking and expressing the things in life. To tell you frankly I does not get affected but I have mentioned this in my post because there may be such some cases. After all we are all here to write and express what we thinks and what we feel the correct. Let go on writing and keep our writing strategy alive utill we are member on this site. After all Mylot is nothing but sort of FAMILY. As there is always fight and quarrels in the family on small small issue which get sort out emicably very soon, same thing it is here at Mylot too. Be Happy and make other Happy.

Surekharathi you are correct there is waste different between negative response and criticizing When you put the negative response we know that it is our better or so that we can improve our writing but when some one criticize it hurt us a lot.

Most of the people in this world we find that they think they knew everything and what they says or think is correct. In such situation it is better to keep quite rather then fall in argument with them.