Only roomie is leaving--O NO!! Help!!
By rosegardens
@rosegardens (3034)
United States
November 19, 2012 10:04am CST
Well, perhaps it is not the worst thing that can happen because there are some issues I have with him. Even so, I really need the money from rent and I am a bit frightened now. The money I get is enough to cover MOST of the bills, not all of them. So that puts me in quite a quandary.
I am contacting everyone I know who may be able to help me find someone to move into one of the basement rooms. In my panic, I even thought about giving away the cats--at least Stinker because he is on a special diet and because he is, everyone is. It would put $50-$100.00 in my pocket each month. My gosh I cannot do it--the boys except for Leonardo only know me and have only lived with me. They were born in my apartment before I moved here to this house.
A friend recommended I sell the house and move to an apartment. lol. It is actually cheaper to pay the taxes here than it is to pay for an apartment!
Those of you who pray, can you please pray that someone good comes along. I am growing towards my whits end right now because I have no way to get enough extra cash to get me through my needs.
I'm sure some people have been in a position where they can't pay everything with what they have coming in. I myself have been there most of my life, even when I worked I never could manage to hold down a job long because of my bad memory, so I had to choose all the time between food, phone, gas and lights and gas for my car to get to job interviews and hopefully a job. I went without heat at times. At least now I get foodstamps, and enough of them to manage. There was a time they only gave me $10.00 because heat was included in the rent. Isn't that something? How can you take in under $600.00, pay rent, car insurance and buy food too? I'm so panicking right now, thinking of those very long and many lean times in my life.
What would you do in my situation if you could not find a renter right away?
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3 responses
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
19 Nov 12
I know your room mate wasn't at all perfect. It is such a shame he is leaving due to the loss of money he brings in. If you move to an apartment then they usually have a service charge. It can be cheaper to live in a house like you do. It is great that you get food stamps. I suggest you try to lower bills. If I was you I would put stuff on my credit cards. I very much hope you will find a different room mate soon. You are doing well trying to spend as little money as possible. Good luck.
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@rosegardens (3034)
• United States
28 Nov 12
Thank you for the advice. I did get a lead or two on some people who might need a place to stay. Hopefully it pans out.
The guy who is leaving hopefully has left. He became violent with me the other night and i had to run out of the house screaming. Geesh! Why is it they can never leave peacefully?
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
19 Nov 12
It is really a tough situation. I got a friend who can't pay for his rent too, and he asked me borrow money to pay for food or gas, whenever he has money, he promise to pay me back, but that never happen though. Anyway, the best I can suggest, maybe not a good advice, but it is the basis for all of us to survive, try to get a job, McDonnald, or whatever you can do with your best. I work 2 jobs, and I am living with my parents. I still not be able to help out my parents, that is something right. I felt shameful on myself too. Hopefully I can do something to help them out.
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@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
You can put up a post outside of the house that you need boarders or something. If you have businesses nearby you can try asking if there are workers who commute far and are looking for a room or place where they could transfer. You can perhaps fix the place in such a way that the boarder will have their own private place if that is possible.