Do you find love or let love find you?

I notice that too. So many people want to be loved and want to be in love so they take action and look for it. It's not wrong but often they will find the wrong person causing more heartbreaks. Being single is fun too? Why not enjoy it to the last minute? LOL before love finds us.

well love finds you i guest you dont need to find it. sometimes its hard to search for love you might get hurt being desperately?

Some people would be desperate to have a partner in life because either they have never had any relationships before or they think that they are running out of time. I say, the right love will always find its way towards you. Let me just share how I met my husband. He was my classmate in First Year College of Preparatory Dentistry. We only had the chance to talk once, and it was just a brief one. I handed him my calling card which I told him to give to his friend coz I need him to call me. And that was it for that semester. Over a year had past, we were already First Year Proper in Dentistry, he again became my classmate, he remembered me, then from that time he would spend most of his free time with me and my friends than with his girlfriend. I did not ask him to be with us always. He just anted to tag along. And soon enough, he dumped his girlfriend.

hello sakurage, I think love is just like a soccer game.. Sometimes we have to run to pick up the ball and sometimes we just only have to wait when the other player pass the ball to us.. Love is just like a sun, its really bright but sometimes people just dont wanna open their eyes to see it..

Personally, love is not something you ought to push yourself through. It’s a natural occurrence on somebody to find that you are intimately feeling affection to someone. It’s a process of understanding somebody based on the experiences you are gaining from him/her. Love should not be brought from finding your lover, hence should be guided by faith and by right timing. You never know that a person whom you bumped from the street will eventually be your soul mate. It really depends on the situation where you put yourself into. Just have faith about it.

when the love is come too u, i think the relation will last longer compare to u find the love. u cannot push someone to love u

It's best if we love each other and meet at the right time and right place.

For me it's both but not to the point that you are obsessed with what you are doing. Silly ideas come around and sometimes tempted to do it but still you need to instill your mind what morality is. Make sure not to hurt others.

I do a little bit of both depending on the type of situation I am in. But most of the time I let love find me so that I will not be too hurt if something goes wrong. However, sometimes you have to seek for love if you feel that love is taking too long to fall on your doorsteps. I believe there is no harm in doing the first move as we all know what we want in the end.

i would rather wait for love to come than to find it :)