life is boring.. what to do ?
@rafaelnadal007 (731)
India
November 20, 2012 1:52am CST
I am a student of final year of MCA.. I never feel enthusiastic and energetic even I don't have any major problem. These days even 5 days before semester exam not feeling like opening book and prepare for exam. It is not like I have finished all before or I can manage at the last moment. Apart from that in other activities I don't feel like doing it like playing tennis or drawing pictures what I used to do 2 years ago. I don't hang out with friends or attend family parties. Can anybody tell me what to do except seeing an counselor ?
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@glenng01 (71)
• Philippines
21 Nov 12
Losing interest in daily activities is a very bad thing. Is there anything that you just want to try out or do in your life? If there is something then I suggest that you better start on doing that. Meet other people, go outside cause staying inside the house would just bore you more.
@rafaelnadal007 (731)
• India
23 Nov 12
I wanted to resume playing tennis and join some other sports like Karate or something like that. I have a plan to work on my fitness. Yes, I do sitting in home and almost do nothing except preparing for my upcoming exams. I don't like meeting people or enjoy the companion of new people. I admit you are right with your last line but somehow I am not going to follow them right now. Thanks for your suggestions. Take care and Happy MyLotting!
@feelnature (27)
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21 Nov 12
What's your hobby? Do you like watching movies? Do you like travelling? ...
You can ask yourself these kind of questions and even if you don't like it, just try it. Besides,
trying different things you have never done will make you feel excited.
@rafaelnadal007 (731)
• India
23 Nov 12
I don't have any hobby right now. Yes, I do love watching movies and download them regularly. I like traveling but opportunities are rare these days. I will love to travel but I need my parents' opinion, money and other things. Thanks for your suggestions. I appreciate it. What's your hobby ? I used to collect cards long ago during school days and I still have them though I don't play with them anymore. Happy MyLotting!
@ladysilver (370)
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20 Nov 12
Fall in love, for some time it gives you wings and you feel enthusiastic about life in general.When I'm in love, I become creative, inspired and happy.Of course, the problem is that you can fall out of love just like I did several months ago and feel nothing again.Start collecting something, practice new sport,improve your physical and mental health,find new friends,join some group or club.Do you have any pets?Sometimes pets bring so much joy in our lives.
@rafaelnadal007 (731)
• India
20 Nov 12
Actually falling in love is no big deal but proper girl is needed for that (even to get a girl). Though I study in the top university in my city still I find it a big issue. I am a bit introvert also. The other suggestions are seems cool to me and many thanks for them. My Lotting and take care.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
21 Nov 12
Well your body might just need some rest. Sometimes we just don't feel in the "mood" when the body doesn't. No matter how hard we tried we still end up so lazy of doing and getting things over. Just give yourself a rest, a swim can maybe help you to set and tone your body and mind. Take it easy but not so easy because you have exams to finish
@rafaelnadal007 (731)
• India
6 Aug 13
I really wanted to resume tennis before but these days it seems I don't like to play tennis anymore. I have become so lazy that even I don't want to play indoor games and pc games too.
@Pen_Pal777 (245)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
yeah,lady silver there is right, fall in love buddy, you haven't written it up there that you don't like it. you don't like to play tennis or draw pictures anymore? well we sometimes outgrew what we sometimes like to to.find something else.wake up early and jog, exercise buddy...exercise, eat well, take vitamins. you can also take classes on personality enhancement programs,whatever. i know what's lacking in you life buddy, you lack inspiration, take it from lady silver..fall in love.
@rafaelnadal007 (731)
• India
20 Nov 12
Yes, you are right about one thing I lack inspiration and motivation also. Lady silver gave me cool suggestions and apart from falling in love others are cool to me. I used to work on fitness several months ago but now only regular ones. I have stopped waking up at 5 AM for jogging and hard work outs for getting perfect figure. Now I wake up at 6 for studies only. :P
P.S if I get a girl who falls for me and if I am okay with her then I don't have any issue.
Thanks and happy myLotting. :D
@manyshadesfgrey (104)
• Quezon City, Philippines
22 May 16
Find motivation, and go back.to the basics. What got you started before? Why do you like it? What you loved about it? How does it make you feel?... if all else fails, pray. Rather before anything else pray.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
21 Nov 12
Oh, you are in your final year so you can't afford to get low scores in your exams. I guess you aren't that motivated anymore. Think of your life after your graduation. You'll be busy in finding a job. You'll be in the real world already. You'll encounter a lot of things. Now that you're still a student, enjoy it. Don't be an introvert. Go out with your friends. Enjoy their company. I was also an introvert when I was in university and I regret that now. I missed half of my life. Go and have fun. Goodluck.
