What should I do when I feel that I'm too busy?
By Polang
@tkonlinevn (6438)
Vietnam
November 21, 2012 10:12pm CST
I have got married about 1.5 years. We have not had kid. However, I feel I'm too busy.
At morning, I get up early to prepare breakfast. Then, I go to office. At afternoon, I go to the market to buy food, cooking dinner. Then, I wash clothes. After all everything are finished, I feel tired. I only watch TV and sleeping early. I can't do anything like studying or going out etc...
Is there any ways for me to solve this problem? How to feel more comfortable while my job and housework are still well?
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10 responses
@shelamae21 (100)
• Philippines
23 Nov 12
You should have time for yourself to relax,especially to your husband,life is to short you should enjoy it...
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
23 Nov 12
Why you put all the housework upon your shoulder?Why not share some of your housework with your husband?
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
23 Nov 12
My husband works very much. He almost doesn't have power after going at home. So, he can't share with me much.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
22 Nov 12
Hi friend, our thoughts and attitudes are the reason for our busy activities, if we feel we have time, surely we will get time even in our busy days. So don't think you are busy and you are doing your work, my wife is also in your sort, she is really a busy person, but she never show it in her face and ready to do a lot of work, she is taking care of our two kids, doing all the house chores as well as continuing her post graduation in correspondence manner, since our kids are very little, so she don't go for job. But she never show her tiredness and be active to do other work.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
23 Nov 12
I believe that she doesn't want you and kids sad. You believe that she's only happy and never stress?
@perfectfeeling (17)
• China
22 Nov 12
Actualy you are spending rather than enjoying your life. The feeling would be more terrible when you have kid. The difference between human and animals is we can use our brain to solve problems. Maybe you can make the time spending on each item shorter by optimize the way you do, the tools you use.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
23 Nov 12
You mean that I should earn much money to buy more tools for housework?
@perfectfeeling (17)
• China
22 Nov 12
Its really a very busy day yes and believe it or not its not the worst in my book. The trouble with us is we only get 24 hours a day. Sometimes you will feel annoying because there might be a lot of things to do but you have to go sleep. To spend your time more efficiently, you have to make a list of what you want to do next. And choose the most important thing everytime you are making the decision of what to do next. And sometimes Time is more precious than money, you can have breakfast outside or hire somebody to help you prepare dinner and wash clothes.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
23 Nov 12
You said right. I feel a daily time is too little. I spent 9 hours at office. So, I don't have much time at home. Do you think that it's better for me if I become a housewife?
@feelnature (27)
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23 Nov 12
You know life can't be easy, and it's common for almost everyone! I have the similar situation as yours, and my solution is creating some surprise. You can try somethings you'd never done, for example, learn a different type of dance. Although it spends your time, you will be excited all day and you won't feel tired or boring.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
23 Nov 12
I tried by jogging every morning. But I must get up more early. After a time, I feel tired, then, I stopped. But exercise make me feel better. I think I'll try to make a suitable schedule to jog every morning again.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
I think that you should also need some time to relax and enjoy life. Are you ready to have a baby? If you are, then you should take time to rest. Some couples really have a hard time to have a baby because of the things that they do everyday that keeps them apart.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
23 Nov 12
This is an useful advice, my friend. Because I love to have kids now. But they haven
't gone with us! Thank you.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
22 Nov 12
Friend I am also feel like you I am too busy no home servant for any work like washing cloth, cleaning vessels, cleaning tiles all work is doing by my own hand. Making meals all. But even after these all work I manage the time for mylot and Watching TV. Make proper schedule the feel free for sometime.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
23 Nov 12
I only have free time for mylot at office when I feel too tired and I can't work. Or I can login Mylot when I have a bit free time. At home, I spend time for sleeping. I love sleeping :D
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
23 Nov 12
I even don't have time to feel tired?! It's terrible. I don't know why there are many women, who are in marriage life and they even have some kids, but they still study and getting many certificate. They still do many things. I admire them!
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@512771751 (1096)
• China
22 Nov 12
Oh, it sounds terriable, but it is necessary to do so in a marriage. Now I don't get married, but I think it really needs responsibilities. Maybe you can search help from your parents or your parents-in-law. Good luck, take it easy and enjoy your marriage.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
23 Nov 12
Thank you for your sharing. At present, we don't live with my parents-in-law. But I'll get advice from some my friends, who are in marriage life. Good luck!