Waking up with a Feeling of Gratitude... I am feeling So Happy and Light :)

hi wakeupkitty how much I wish I could be like a mom - their hearts and will power are so strong. my late grandmother suffered from severe piles for at least 10 last years of hers, from white I remember she turned pale but still she did carry on and we in the family never felt anywhere that she was ill. It was her love that kept her going. My Mom too has some major issues - a clot in brain, hernia - and she has been ill for more than 15 years now, but still she is so very active - love for family again. So I can very well understand what you go through dear. I wish you a better health dear.

hi adnileb sometimes i too think I am overweight when the doctors tell me that my knees are unable to carry me (due to this arthritis) i have been thinking about your job and your idea to migrate or shift to another organization... and do hope that this would happen sooner. Now do you need more chocos and hugs when you are here on Mylot? Okay, I think I can share some with you more often now and do hope that others will not mind me sharing them with you... btw, your avatar (this current one of the school girl times) does deserve more hugs and chocos... So here is some... warm and some melted chocolate for you... you might want to cool it down if you like cold chocolate (testing your patience :lol)

Oh, arthritis.. my mom has that kind of pain on her hands. And I pity her watching her hands tremble when tired and when it’s cold. So I usually massage them and in return, she should pay me at least 1peso. That’s so cheap compared to having a massage outside which costs 250~300 pesos. With regards to having another job, no employers called me yet. But I’m willing to wait – hope it’s not that long. My avatar looks sad, maybe I hate to take picture that time. But yes, she needs more hugs and chocos more than I do now. But I prefer the melted one, much better for my sore throat.

hi adnileb, I am actually not aware of the particular job problem but not everyone is having job satisfaction these days due to office politics, competition, non recognition of their work etc etc. So Just cheer up till you find some very suitable switch and try to focus on successfully discharge the work/s given to you at your workplace. as chocos are being shared by Sid....

You have an amazing attitude which I'm sure also helps you get through the bad days. Some people are unable to pull themselves up and find good in their world when times are hard. I'm not sure why but some of us seem more blessed in the ability to find ways to keep our chins up and keep going. I can see how Mylot can be therapeutic either to vent or even to momentarily forget our own problems. It helps me for sure. The other day when I was so worried about losing my apartment and all, well, it really helped to just get on here and talk about it. I'd been feeling just sick about it and suddenly I knew that regardless of the outcome, I'd be ok. Have a great day, my friend!{{{{HUGS}}}}

Hi my dear namesake The mention of this discussion putting a smile on you face - made my day and this post successful for sure. You might have read on my my discussions that this is one of my two goals for me - bringing smiles to a face a day. Yes dear, there are days and times when I do feel quite low and depressed but then, I have found out some great and effective ways which work good for me - like one - being here at MyLot and sharing the experiences and happenings in the lives of my so many dear friends. And some times when my friends post heart touching discussions, and I am feeling depressed that day, I do try to feel their pain and that really helps me forget mine for sometime at least and I get time to e-construct myself

I watched this in a movie - the Beach - decaprio said - I will not die today. And that make me think and today I keep believing in that. Everytime I am low and depressed, I say this to myself and think if I am not going to die today, i am living and if I am living, I should be Alive rather than merely living. yes, there are many who do carried away when in pain, even I too was that way until 2008 when I tried to kill myself as I couldnt stand the physical pain and also the pain my wife had to undergo during my illness and bed confinement... but when I lived beyond that moment, I realized how important it is for me to live - live for my wife who means the world to me. And yes dear, mylot is a wonderful thing to have happened to me. just like you and many others, it works as a shock absorber. Hope your apartment issue is now resolved

Hi viju The hot coffe and chocolate are served above on adnileb's box. you still need some more? I think I can make some arrangements.... The community and my friends here have really been so very special since I have joined here. They have been more close to me for sure than many others in the real world today. i have shared many of my ups and downs with them and maybe this is just because I have always felt MyLot to be my extended family

...And wait... As the 4th one wouldnt go as it is not allowed, here is the rest - I wonder what is wrong with you and dear adnileb - as both suffer from throat related ailments at this moment... was it that you had cold coffee or ice creams all alone? sometimes I feel I can cheat the codes at MyLot

Maybe it's because they are sharing the same chocos you served... The virus transfered through the cyber space...

hi godmom It is always been a great feeling to read a positive response which kind of peps me. We all have problems in our lives and when we start taking these problems as major issues, we miss out on enjoying life which does keep bringing happiness in smaller packs and parcels. And I feel, our ignoring them, makes us more sad and depressed. And yes, dear godmom, I do believe that when we are amidst in a problem of any kind, it seems to be the biggest problem on the planet. I look out on others and try to feel their pain which makes me realize that mine is just a smaller problem But, yes, many times, I still falter on this But I will keep trying to master this art.

We are just human, we're sensitive and weak at times. So it's normal that we falter many times. What matters is that we keep reminding ourselves to always be strong and try as hard as possible to face any challenges and obstacles bravely.

What matters is that we keep reminding ourselves to always be strong and try as hard as possible to face any challenges and obstacles bravely. I will have this on my table now. it is so very correct and I do think if I keep reminding my lazy and forgetful brain these lines, it would store it better and I would be the gainer.

hi vernaC I always believe that anyone who is suffering feels pain and also that there is no bigger ailment for him/her than what s/he is suffering from right now. Your hubby might have a simple common-cold, but it is really wonderful for him to have you as his wife - who is so very caring My wife and I have to stay away as she has got posted into a city where I cannot stay for long due to my health issues. She is at a port town since Jan 12 but the distance between us is just physical and never felt as we always chat and talk over phone. And whenever she is around, we do feel really good being together.

you said it right dear - Simple happiness is what we need in this life - and unfortunately today's busy lifestyle doesnt leave us with much of spare time to find these simple happiness moments.... I recall a line from poem - getting and spending we lay waste our powers - from William Wordworth. he could write it those days and had a great vision about the days to come

That's so nice to know. I am really happy with my life right now and I want everyone if possible to be happy as well. Simple happiness is what we need in this life.

ps. Check your gmail!

It is just distance! We are family and we are as close as families in the same house, maybe even closer in some cases!It feels so good to know there are two lovely people out there that love me!

hi behen of course, the closeness we share today all started with that discussion from you and when you followed it up with narrating me the story of the movie It is still as if it was just yesterday... but we have come to be a family today. And it is really a great feeling to have someone caring for you from almost the other side of the planet.

Hi jpso Thanks for your wishes dear. But unfortunately there is no cure to my Ulcerative Colitis and Rheumatoid Arthritis. But that doesnt matter to me. I have believed in - I will not die today (from the movie - The Beach) and when I am not going to die today, I have to Live. yes, there are times when the health plays on me but still I do have some good days when I do feel so positive. On this discussion I have also got a good quote on #1 above which I have put on my computer (as a sticker) and am sue when I am low, that quote will help me feel good and stay positive.

hi jazel This feeling is really great and I do hope that this stays with me for a few days or more. I read your earlier discussion on this and yes, I think it is just something which comes from the Lord above. He decides which days go good and which go great.

Why not- let's pray to that

Hi di it is a pleasant feeling after many days for me and I am really enjoying the day. I hope this feeling continues all through into the next year

namaskar sir I do thank you for calling me up and updating me on madam's health. it is really something which makes me feel more closer to you and family because when someone calls or shares the sad moments with anyone, it does reflect the closeness and warmth that the two share I do pray that madam's health improves soon and she gets fine sooner.

Thank you so much, god bless you

of course, a formality but I guess this acceptance would allow us to get updates on what one posts and that should and will bring us more close

hi sishy We have interacted on a handful of discussions only so far... and I just realized we arent friends yet(at least officially) so have sent you a FR Many a times I feel pepped up and really happy by even small things happening and maybe somewhere the Lord above blessed me today that I am feeling much lighter and happy. I do try to stay positive in thoughts but then dear... there are some times when I fail. But have just got a wonderful line on #1 above which I have written down on and pinned it on my table. Hope that this daily visual and read of this line would help me stay positive for longer happy thanksgiving.

FR accepted. Really just a formality... I feel we've always been friends already...

Hi VP i know dear that I have to live with these ailments for life. And I am not going to be suffering from the mental pain all my life. That is what I have been thinking since a few months now and am still working to achieve that goal. yes, the pain is there but then, it has to stay behind and I have to move on... that is what I think life is all about! Thanks for your prayers and wishes mate. I do believe in these things and miracles do happen when there are prayers from the heart

Hi perfectfeeling Of course, the pain might be electric signals or whatever but they are unhealthy for anyone. They neither allow anyone to think the right way or even live life. Good that I have woken up with this feeling today and this again is an electric impulse to my brain.

You are, as always, so right...everyday should be a "gratitude" day...but I forgot to mention, that here in Canada, our "Thanksgiving Day" was recognized October 14th...a day of celebatory foods, and to give Thanks for the bountiful harvest! The small Island that I live on, is 14 miles OFF the coast of Vancouver (where the 2010 Olympics were held.) And, if I go to the Vancouver side of the Island, I, too can enjoy the spectacular "light show" from the Diwali Festivals ..probably more beautiful from my vantage point. My Thanksgiving was spent on one of the highest Mountain summits in British Columbia, with my son...we spent 13 days "winter camping" at over 2700 metres...NO phones, NO electricity, and NO-ONE, just us two, daily trudging the mountain terrains, in snow...and nights around a huge campfire, happily indulging in Hot Chocolate & Drambuie...with NO distractions except before nature, it was EASY to be thankful! The only deterent, sometimes MINUS 18..a very nippy temperature...made acceptable by Hot Choco and the liquer..LOL! Thank you for sharing the significance of Diwali! Take care, dearheart!

October 14th. Yes, I should have remembered that. you mentioning it here reminds me that you did mention this somewhere... and I had forgotten about it. but for the 18 below zero, it would have been a wonderful time - completely aloof from almost all the happenings on the planet and just you and family spending time together.

Hi Big Sis I have missed you so much and it is really so wonderful a feeling to see you back here and today is Thanksgiving day. I couldnt have asked for anything better. Diwali is a different kind of festival. it signifies the victory and triumph of virtues over the Bad. It also marks the return of Lord Rama back to his kingdom Ayodhya after spending 14 years in banishment and during this time, he slain many demons. the birth of a son or daughter yes, that is something the biggest thing in a woman's life - I say this as I do know giving life and birth is one thing that these women are specially gifted with. And we men can never understand the happiness in the pains of childbirth ever... no matter what we might say. for the link, i understand, sis. There is no rush as the stock I have should last a week or more. And what is more important is that you have some great time today and enjoy the day.

Viju,I was famous on my punctuality before kid born after that am a later comer. Now my boss too not dared to ask the reason.

hi didi I can understand you dear. Being a home minister is so very difficult and tiring. But then the being happy in other's happiness is something which is really so big and great. When it is in family,moms feel more happy on so many things which otherwise would have made them jealous or even unhappy. #viju: thanks for your wishes. I too have many questions any day as I am alone here and what should I be cooking is one of the biggest issue as I mostly get confused what should I have... something like choosing between chocos or hot chocolate or even hot black coffee or cold coffee.... I am lucky that I can do away with not ironed clothes as I always am seen in shorts and tees or kurtas (good that i stay at home) and even dont bother much about wearing the same dress for 2-3 days without washing them... Sundays is the washing day.

Hi sree, Sid was feeling grate & light YESTERDAY Wish he feels that every day. In addition to what you said, we also think of what to wear for office, is that dress ironed and in case i get late for work what is the excuse to tell????

Dear Ms Hatley Your responses never fail to make me smile You are a wonderful lady and sharing MyLot and facebook space with you does make me feel blessed. Thanks for all the love and care you have shown to me since the past so many months. And of course, Happy Thanksgiving

Hi Hatley, You inspire me with every post/comment/ response that you make in mylot - for a year now, though many times i miss to respond to discussions started by my dear friends here. Sid - i'm sure you agree with me as we can hardly find such persons (as Hatley) in our country with so much of positivity and energetic too.

Reiki has what is known distant healing. You should be willing to have someone do that distant healing for you and it works. It takes a while for anyone to look at the brighter side of life and when one starts looking around earmestly it miraculously presents itself. You seem to have done that! And as for the right words - let me see - they are just the right words. Where did you get them from? Tell me please!

About the Reiki, I had not considered them as I felt that they are doing this for money and as I had no knowledge on how reiki works that added to my confusions. Now that you mention the distant healing, can it work for people who arent related in anyway except - something like - doctor and patient and the patient is around 1800 or more kilometers away? I ask this because it might help me make a decision whether to try them or find anyone known to me and I want to get id of those stones in gall bladder without a surgery, Have been on Alopathy and Homeopathic medicines for around a month or more but it doesnt still feel comfortable. for looking at the brighter sides, I actually had never thought of that - I was going to kill myself that day in 2008 but something happened and it changed me. And I survived. Then I felt I cannot stay sad and sulk all my life, and there started this change happening to me. Today, I am finding it much easier to live and be alive. for the words, I tried putting my feelings into words and wasnt sure... (and they came out of my keyboard I guess... now I am wondering whom to blame... fingers that typed or the keyboard)

Hi allknowing And your avatar with that looks so yummy (sorry I couldnt help saying this, you know I am shameless when it comes to anything Yummy!) I have heard about reiki and I had contacted a hospital at Delhi as they say on their website that reiki can heal the Gall Bladder stones and they even did not want me to be physically present. Well, this didnt go well with me and so I changed my mind. Anyways, I do agree with you that the attitude of gratitude is in itself a big healer. At least it does get me rid of many banes, ugly thoughts and it does give me a sense of happiness, a kind of closeness with many people (I hope I am using the right words).

Hi Bro Ah yes, I remember that discussion... and I do hope you havent started either the morning walks or the cycling (when you have a bike, who bothers a cycle drive) you should start taking lots of jaljeer and isabghol Okay, seriously, I am glad that you too have such days. May I ask what are the "special days"... I guess it is the excitement of travel or being with your family which makes the days special... but for me, yesterday and even today, there is nothing that special happening, but this feeling made my yesterday 9and I do hope many more days to come) really pleasant

Lots of ! I do take isabghol rarely.. And yes I have still not stared cycling, but I do some walking in the morning or late in evening, but still I am not regular. About special days, your guess is right..

Mom, I know you are both not in good health but God knows what is best to both of you...Yes you are both lucky to have each other in life s with your good children.Take care and God Bless you..