should we trust our new friends???
By dawoodumer42
@dawoodumer42 (57)
United Arab Emirates
November 22, 2012 7:21am CST
Hi guyz!
Can you tell me about your experience that when u make a new friend u should trust fully on him in the starting or just test him the starting days. And will he prove to be exactly correct on your expextations or not. Have u evr made much new friends?
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8 responses
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
27 Nov 12
We should trust on our new or old friends but limited means not more trust for money, or dont make close friendship. I not like more trust on friends because they can do the fraud with us. I face this problem with my friend.
@shiwenlingjy (38)
• Changzhou, China
26 Nov 12
Time tries all. As an old chinese saying goes,"As distance tests a horse's strength, so time reveals a person's heart". It is not wise to let him or her know your whole world. If you decide to make a "forever" friend, it is necessary to test him or her first at starts, sort of like him, the same thing.
@nelerkz (467)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
You can trust him but not fully, just enjoy the companionship and let it flow. It's hard to trust a person nowadays and a tru friend is hard to find, for me you can give the 60% trustand try to observe him. ;) welcome to mylot.
@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
26 Nov 12
HI!
As for me I do not really trust new friends just right away...
Trust is earned, so for me it is not given just like that.
And you can actually feel or see if a person is to be trusted or not but of course not in every time. Trust can be earned as you spend time together :)
@puiuioandaniel (182)
• Romania
22 Nov 12
I think is testing your new friend is pretty stupid. Sorry for this, but why should you do that? In fact, you tell your secrets to someone if you feel it, not because he is your friend. I told my secrets to my friends and they aren't new and I still regret this. Now, I speak this thingss with three people: my best friend and my mom and dad. Parents never speak too much.
@neil_tokitz (345)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
All you need is time, time will show you the things you wanted to know and see. If you ask me, don't trust new friend that much. Remember it's "new" friend, it's just like new cellphone, you don't know it that much, don't know much on how to operate it so what you need is time to explore it and learn it by yourself. Just like in new friends, you also need to time to know them much better. Don't just give your trust on them. :)
@therealmaryyy (3162)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
I strongly believe that a person needs to earn the 'trust'... i don't trust. really.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
22 Nov 12
Yes trust him, but don't disclose so private yet. Nothing wrong with trusting a person. He's a new friend he deserves that trust. If he breaks it then end of friendship. But not too trusting that you will tell him your whole new world. Choose something you are comfortable sharing with or wait for him to share more.
