single girl or single parent girl?

There's nothing wrong with a 24 year old men loving a women with a child. I'm 24 and - have two kids. Of coutse I'm married but most sigle moms have there stuff together to take care of there childM if he lovers then he should be with her

Why is there a problem? He loves her and her child and they love him! Was he Suppose to marry a virgin?Let your friend be happy!

My younger son is only 22, and involved with a single mom with a 4 year old spoiled brat. I have been very supportive of him-- but I have also told him this just won't work-- the girl and her mom tell him they want him to be a daddy, then won't let him teach this kid how to behave. Fortunately, he's beginning to recognize this isn't working well, and They probably won't be together much longer. Taking on a ready made family is very difficult, and not something that people should just jump into. It takes years to build a lasting relationship, and a lot of work to maintain one-- I would tell your friend that, and be ready to support him if it doesn't work, and happy for him if it does.

Blog, sometimes it is depending on one's faith and luck. Because nowadays, young people whom both are still single do encountered a lot problem together as well. Most important is, both of them willing to work positively in maintaining their relationship. Since your friend don't have any problem into accepting her daughter, i think it is not a huge problem. Now, they needs to work together into building a lasting relationship which worth to continue into the marriage stage. Good luck to your friend.

Our initial reaction to such situation would be in shock. Coz we all want our friends and loved ones to be in a "normal" relationship and we would want to be assured that they remain in a loving relationship. But sometimes, our love does not seem to come in a perfect situation wrapped in a box with a golden bow, right? I think that if your friend really loves that girl and has accepted her child, then that is all that matters.

Hi There must be something with that girl aside from a child that made your friend love her. So what if she has a child, if she is a good person and makes your friend happy then I think you should give her a chance as well. Maybe you should get to know her better first before you disapprove of her.

That poor girl loved another man before she met your friend. That first man abandoned her, and left her with a baby. And you want to punish her more? Is she to live the rest of her life as a single mother and wind up in poverty with her and her daughter and probably men taking advantage of her daughter because there is no father in her life? Your friend is a good man. You should be glad that he is mature enough to take on an already made up family, not to tell him to leave that girl and her child because some creep used the girl for his own gratification and left her high and dry.

So, what's the big deal if the girl he loves already have a daughter? I have seen many couple having a good life even if the other partner already have previous relationships or kids from previous relationship. Love matters most and having kid/s from previous relationship is not a big deal if you really love the person. I admire your friend for being a good person, by heart

If I have an option, I will definitely choose a single one but we all know that in choosing the one we love, I don't think that there's this kind of specific criteria to follow. Although falling in love with a single parent may have some complications and hardships in it, I don't think that there is something wrong with it. Technically, the person is still single and have the right to enter in a relationship and get married. But your friend should think about it many times because it may not be easy as he may be thinking. Is the girl working, where is the father of the kid, is he supporting her or is it your friend whose going to support the kid after they get married? Those are the many considerations he should think and should clarify before entering in a serious relationship with a single parent.

Hi friend, there is nothing wrong in giving life to a single parent, if both of the persons are in real love, it is based on the individual interest as you mentioned your friend loves the girl and interested in taking care of her child, then there is nothing wrong in getting married

Put your self in her shoes, she may be a good person who had bad luck with a guy. the guy talked her into *** with out really loving her. When she got ***** he took off ,at lest she is being responsible and taking care of her daughter. Many guys in the philippines go with a girl just for **** then go to the next one.I have heard this from several differend girls. They want to be married and have a family so bad they give him what he wants. She is probably a good responsible person that has learned her lesson, and would be a good wife

Yes, what's wrong with that. What's wrong with a woman with a child? If your friend loves her. For sure he had seen some good qualities with this person that you don't see. Yes good thing you didn't press your luck so hard, it is really better to keep silent than to argue with the inlove guy. So relax and he's 24 years old and he knows what he is doing. Nothing wrong with a single-parent mom it is wrong when she has a husband and living with her husband now.

Love knows boundary my friend, you may not like the girl but your friend loves her, and if he does, there is nothing much you can do about it, but be happy for them. and there is nothing wrong with a girlfriend who already had a daughter.