Woman thou shall not commit a sin before the eyes of a man --- so big deal

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As I watch a reality show on our local channels that handles family dispute and settlement, a question came into my mind and ask outright - why is it so big deal before the eyes of a man if he thinks his wife commit a sin and when if they are the one who commit a sin, i mean the male , we girls easily forget and patched it up. But for men, its so big deal that they will recollect over and over and over again everytime a confrontation comes between. The topic was all about a woman who was caught by her husband having a coffee with her former boyfriend in a certain coffee shop. The husband dont accept any explanations from the wife and right away arrived on a fixed conclusion that his wife is playing around. No matter what explanations the wife did, that it was just a coincidence they bump each other and talk over a cup of coffee for a while - its already adultery as the husband speak. With just a single moment of talk from a friend, it already became her nightmare and living on a concentration camp for his husband always rubbed to her face that very moment. As if the wife committed a mortal sin with a punishment of lifetime suffering. Trust has been tarnished and the way i look at the incident the husband stripped away the right of the wife to freedom. The wife became more submissive to the husband just to avoid confrontation. The wife no longer question her husband why sometimes he came home late just avoid arguments for in the long run it will turn to her past mistake again and more so the wife is no longer a person who lives with him with sincere love and care because all she got is fear and unspoken hatred. I find this so unfair and base on my opinion, the husband already use the issue an alibi maybe of his own hidden monkey business - for who kmows, his husband is the one committing adultery and just use the mistake of his wife as an scapegoat.