I feel like i am not "ME"

What you feel is normal. You are in a different environment living with other people. It will take a while before you can be really feel at home. But wanting to feel at home is a good start.

Wow!! There must be something in the distance that just does not feel right with you and your relationship and you living there. Are there other people living there in the house? Do you always feel crowded and hard to find time alone? Personally if you are not married, this might be time for you to explore your options and decide what is Best for you and do it. Your mate might have a hard time understanding at first, but it might be the Best in the end.

No i never had this feeling, i am always the real 'me' i think the feelings you have is some thing temporary, it will go away soon

Maybe it's because you once experienced being judged by them, so now you would like to avoid their presence as much as you can. We live with my in-laws too for over 7 years now. Our daughter is always in a far place studying, so it would always be us and my in-laws. When i have no work, like during holidays and my husband is at work, i would cook for our meals, because i love doing it. Then after that, i will do the dishes and be in our room to enjoy my solitude. In there, i can watch shows of my choice, i can surf the net and clean and arrange our room. I usually just go out to mingle when i have to cook and eat our meals. Although, i do mingle with them also to chat, but usually that's rare and during meals and doing the dishes only.

Hi friend, this kind of feeling are quite common to newly married persons, as you mentioned you are in your partners place, so you are thinking in this sort. Just think that they are your relatives and family members and here after that house is your own house, you will come out from this feeling and mingle with them. Attitude is every thing, so change it

First thing first are you sure you want to move in your partner's place? Or there is something you know that is not right that hampers you to feel at home? If you are not really sure that you have to move in his place maybe that's the reason why you don't feel at home. Something in you brain telling you something. Or maybe that is right, you just need more time to adjust.

There are times i have experienced this myself. i have always thought that i could never understand what it is that confuses me with my life and all. sometimes i look at myself in the mirror and would be confused at some length as to what i was doing, what am i supposed to be, what is the meaning of everything and all... it sure does confuses me.. but then i'd think oh well...

I understand that feeling since that you are just transferred there, that is a normal feeling and that is a part of adjustment. Socialization is a must, if you don't like it so it's just yourself can intervene there. Have a nice day ! :)

It is not about what you should do but the question should be: what do you want? Have you ever lived on your own? Have had your own house/housekeeping? If so this ir probably the reason why you find it hard to feel home in their house (again). Ask yourself what is bother you for real (make a list). Ask yourself what you want(ed) or expect(ed).. if your and how to reach that. If your parents are nice tell them about your confused feelings as well. And yes I do think you should spend time with them as well. It's the only way to be kind of a part of this (new) home.

Hi, Sometimes I feel like this. I am straight forward type of person. But sometimes I behave very calmly with the person who irritates me. So I feel like that time as I am not me. It is very difficult for me to control my anger but sometimes I can surprisingly do it. In your case you have to adjust with your partners. every individual has his own opinions and so you have to understand each other.