If you would migrate, where would you take your family?
By jureathome
@jureathome (5361)
Philippines
November 23, 2012 5:29am CST
A lot of Filipino families have migrated to different countries, mostly to US, Canada, Australia and New Zealand. All those I know, seems to be enjoying their lives there. With that, my husband and I wants to consider checking out the option of migrating.
We have always wanted to start a small business in general merchandise and bakery, but that plan went overdue. If we still cant get our business started within 2 years, we'd really have to switch to Plan B, which is to migrate and find a better life elsewhere.
Is it really going to be a better life for the family in a foreign country?
If so, where should we bring our family, and why?
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11 responses
@anne25penn (3305)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Sadly, this is a reality most of our countrymen are facing today. Even if both spouses are working, most of the time their salaries are not enough to make ends meet. Not even to live a little comfortably. I hope that you can start your business, because if you do and it becomes a success, then you don't really have to go elsewhere.
It's not just about the money or cost of living, but the quality of education and the lifestyle itself. Imagine most kids have to wake up at 4AM just to get ready for school because their school bus has to get them to school by 7AM and at 6AM traffic is already horrendous. Also for the working public. You have to spend half of your day either falling in line or in traffic, and that is not healthy.
If I were to leave, then it would be the US. For the simple reason that most of my family live there. But I am still holding on, and refusing to leave.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
It would be more comfortable and secure to have some family living there, before you. They could ease you in to the new world you're about to experience. They can help you adjust easily and not be home sick.
@Elenakat13 (425)
• United States
23 Nov 12
That is a big step you are taking!
I can't help you there but what I know is that it has to be a country with a good health care!
I was raised in Germany and had six surgerys over there including cancer treatment and didn't had to pay a cent.
2007 I moved to Florida and only two month later I had a six thousand dollar bill in my mail for staying one night in the hospital and no insurance .
So please look out for that
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
23 Nov 12
Right, that's very important especially with kids who could get sick often. I heard that most European countries also have many good programs for mothers and children.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Here, we get medical care through the company. But, if you're self employed or unemployed, then the government's healthcare is not very good.
@Elenakat13 (425)
• United States
24 Nov 12
That is very true believe me I thought it would be easier over here but with my health condition I don't get insurance below $500 and I can't afford that so please keep that in mind
@wilsongoddard (7291)
• United States
28 Nov 12
I am an American, and I see a lot of people coming here from around the world.
My boyfriend and I have given thought to moving elsewhere, though. He had lived in South America for a few years while he was married to a woman there. We have given thought to relocating to Canada, Europe (UK or Ireland, most likely) or Australia.
My preference would be the UK or Ireland for a variety of reasons--including the fact that my native tongue, English, predominates.
@wilsongoddard (7291)
• United States
28 Nov 12
There are many reasons for us to relocate. However, I can't get into some of them. We will have to see how things shape up as to whether what we would like to do happens.
I will say, though, that you really need to take a closer look at how the U.S. is in terms of healthcare, laws, education, etc. in comparison to other countries (especially compared to Canada and the European nations) before you decide to migrate here. While the U.S. is popular, that doesn't mean that this nation offers the best quality of life.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
That's right. I don't think US would be our choice. Life there is too fast-paced.
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
23 Nov 12
I have no thinking to have my family migrate in other country. We love it here though it is hard sometimes. Our business is here, our friends are here.
But, if we can migrate, let me think. It would be in London. I like it there. I like old buildings and place.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
23 Nov 12
If you have business here, then you have the reason to stay. If we will get our business plan going within 2 years, then of course, we'd also stay. We love it here and we don't really long to fly to another country. But, if worse comes to worst, it may just be best to look at other options.
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
23 Nov 12
Care to share what is the business that you are planning?
Sometimes, living in our country makes someone thinks about migrating. Most of my gradeschool friends and college batchmates migrated to another country. You don't earn much in this country being a Physical Therapy (my course). Salary isn't the same like in the US. So again, most of them are in other country.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
My husband always wanted to open a bakery or bakeshop. He believes that even with too many competition, it still is a profitable business because Filipinos eat bread, regardless of status, age, size. And, we dream of branching out, too. Also, we want to pair it with a general merchandise business and we'd reach out to mountainous areas to sell to retail store owners.
@hoseasmate (720)
• United States
24 Nov 12
I don't know whether it would be a better life or not. You have to consider that you will be leaving your family and all that is familiar to you behind and you will have a lot of new experiences. Some of them may be good and some may not. I think if you do go to a different country you might consider going where you know someone that has gone before you. That was you would have help learning the new customs and have someone help you settle into the new country. Perhaps you could contact two or three people that have gone to one of the countries you are interested in and ask them to find out if there is room for you to start your business in that country. Good luck with your dreams....may they come true for you!
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
If I migrate, I'd be with my husband and kids. It'll be a family plan. It's a huge step, I know. We have to consider all factors and make sure its the right way to go. It'd be too much to regret about.
@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
5 Dec 12
You must realize that your children will adjust to the new country, if your move to America, they will become Americanized, if you move to Australia, they will become like Australians. Your children will no longer be living in a Filipino culture. If you want your children to stay in a Filipino culture, then move to a country with a large and strong Filipino community. If you plan to move to an English speaking country, learn English because it will really help you in your business. Sometimes, it is best if you know someone who has already migrated and then, at least, you have someone who can help you, once you move to a new country.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
Thanks for the tips. Yes, it really would be a big factor to consider to move to a country with a large Filipino community. Speaking English won't be much of a problem for me and my husband, since we've been working for international companies for years. Although, learning the culture and living it would be a challenge to overcome.
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
A lot of my friends are now citizens of a different country... and they are asking me if i want to follow suit... but honestly... i like it here in the Philippines... and if given a chance... i only want to visit other countries rather than settle there for good... the Philippines would always be my home...
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Same here. I'd only want to visit other countries for vacation, or as a tourist. But, I don't really see myself living there for good. Maybe, if I get to visit a place and fall in love with it, I could still change my mind. Philippines is home for me, but I wouldn't mind finding a better place.
@Mintlin (322)
• China
24 Nov 12
I have thought this kind of question before.For sure i love my mother country,but i'm quite unsatisfied with government and social health care,financial problem and so on. another way of saying is i'm kind of disappointed with this place.
There are tons of factor should be considered in migration.Like language,culture
shock,new country's migration policy,health care,job,living etc.
in my case,i would take canada as my first option. i suppose i can get the better qualtiy of life,make friends easily,settle in smoothly in this diverse culture.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Those things you mentioned are indeed factors to consider in looking for a place to move in to. It won't just be a new house, but also a new community, a new culture and laws.
In Canada, there are many Filipinos, so perhaps, it won't be too difficult to blend in and for the locals to accept a new neighbor.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Yeah, i think so, too. But, one must have the passion in such business and in handling different types of people to excel in such field. My husband and I love to travel, but we don't usually mingle with other tourists around.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
23 Nov 12
well i don't have any plans of migrating to any other country . If i get any job opportunities in other countries then i can work but wont settle in any other country. As you know mother country is always the best.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
For me, I don't want to work in a foreign land. If I travel out of the country, it would be for vacationing. Right now, everything is doing well for us, here in our homeland, but if things get worse in terms of government and finances, we'd really have to consider migrating.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
23 Nov 12
Well I have been there.. my father migrated me to the usa when I was just 16. My dad started a car shop there, and sent all his money back to mexico to my mom and brother. My dad is still in usa.. he will retire next month there, and return back to his birth place. My dad did well for our family migrating to the usa.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
So are you working in the US, too? Do you think it was better to raise kids in the US than in Mexico?