Is it more difficult for a men to share their feelings?
By Elenakat13
@Elenakat13 (425)
United States
November 23, 2012 10:21am CST
I hope I find people that made the same experience like me.
Or when I am even lucky a few honest answers from some male users?
In my life I had a few relationships and I experienced that in all of them the men had real problems to talk about their feeling.
Even a simple question like what was the reason you married me? My hubby starts to struggle.
I know that he loves me more then anything so that is not the problem it is that I keep wondering if all men having problems with it and why?
Last valentines day he came at home with a big box of russel stover a heart shaped cup with a stuffed dog inside of it and 25 roses.
He looked me straight in the eyes and said I love you so much! He never done that before and his eyes were getting wet.
I know how hard it was for him to do that it was so sweet and I will never forget that!
So please tell me did you make the same experience like me?
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6 responses
@AnkitGurung (35)
• India
24 Nov 12
Hey i am not a married person but i know about relationships. Right now i am in a relationship. If you are comfortable with the person you are in a relationship, then sure you can share feelings comfortably with her. That's not a difficult thing. You just need a better understanding. Relationships are all about understandings, if they understands you, then you are comfortable about sharing feelings. So share your feelings with your partner before it's too late. God bless.
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@AnkitGurung (35)
• India
24 Nov 12
I don't know about everyone, & i am sure every next person is different because i'm one of them who shares their feelings towards their loved ones. You know every and each person has its own identity, so is your husband. so understand him more, may be someday he shares his feeling someday and yeah God bless you both, keep loving each other..:)
@Elenakat13 (425)
• United States
24 Nov 12
Thx for your comment
But we don't have a problem actually I can say after the years being together with him it is still like new falling in love over and over again.
It just keeps me thinking why men have more trouble to show their feelings then woman do
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
I agree.
Men are not so expressive like women when it comes to their feelings.
They show their love in different ways but not through speaking a lot.
Well,I am not that expressive through words also- I am more on actions.
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@Elenakat13 (425)
• United States
24 Nov 12
Well good to know that I am not alone here thinking that way thx a lot
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
i hope so in the future but now let just say i am a hopeless romantic. anyway. what your husband did s wonderful and only rare men have shown it truthfully to there wife and mostly seem artificial. so his reason may be more serious show of affection and great love to you which you should treasure. i do hope your relationship stay happy and fruitful thorough out the years.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
23 Nov 12
Why men cannot share their feeling regarding their love? I knew even men do share their feeling with other, but not with anyone else but they make a point to share with the right person with whom they have the trust and sure that what they tshare that person will not share it with other
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Guys don't say much coz they'd rather think things through carefully before uttering it aloud. Girls on the other hand are the more demonstrative with their feelings and whatever the first thing comes to their minds, they just spill it out.
@Bluebell18 (636)
• United States
23 Nov 12
Hi Elenakat,
That's love. I'm getting a bit teary just from reading this. Men are sheltering their feelings in fear of us women,who are sensitive creatures and detectors of knowing what's going on with our men. It's astounding that men are so open on other things except letting it all hang out.
Case in point; my boyfriend and I have been having a difficult time recently. Part of that dealt with him not opening up to me. Just like you, felt betrayed and not trusted by someone who said they love us and trust us. But how can you trust someone if you don't open up? Maybe its foolish pride or men don't want to seem weak and vulnerable. If you give your loved one time, somehow, they will open up.
@Elenakat13 (425)
• United States
23 Nov 12
Thank you so much for your response!
I gave up on that and don't ask him these questions anymore cause I thought about that and figured that I am a very lucky woman having a hubby that loves me so much,better then one that tells me that all the time and doesn't mean it.
The knowing and the feeling that he loves me is enough it just sounds good when he says it once in a while
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