Does your partner/spouse compliment you on your talents or looks?

When times we received a compliment from our love one's, it is actually the nicest and happiest moments our life has to experienced, unexplained feelings and mixed emotions. in addition, our heart smiles as if we are out of the blue. It is also like a fuel that ignite our hearts and minds to start with a travel going to the point of destination on our total happiness.

Hi friend, Yes I do like to be complimented by my partner too. He does that very often. When I'm with him I feel beautiful. Whenever I dress up for him he notices it and tells me I'm beautiful. Even if I'm on my PJ's and Tshirt and my hair uncombed, sometimes while we're talking he'll just stare at me and say I'm beautiful. I'm loving it so much. he actually compliments me more than I compliment him. I think I'll be more generous. hehehe ;D

Sadly, he does not. I never heard him ,in our 22 years of being a couple, say any compliments about how I look or the things that I might excel in. What I would often hear from him are those that he doesn't want. Like when we were in College, he wouldn't allow me to wear my uniform without wearing a half slip under it. Or there should be a pin on my uniform blouse so that my chest would not be showing up. He would place a towel or a shirt over my legs when I am wearing shorts while seated on the front seat of the car.

My husband does compliment me sometimes. The best thing is he compliments me the most when I don't try and I think I look horrible! Last night we had a good night of playing cards and talking like we did before we had kids, and he kept telling me how pretty I am and how lucky he is to have me. =) It was nice.

Yes he does when he likes what I wear or how my hair or make up is. He also comments at the same time when he doesn't like what he sees. He's pretty involved in my get-up sometimes it stresses me because he's got things like he doesn't want me to have short hair, doesn't want me to wear big clothes, etc. Lately I've been wearing large shirts because I'm getting fat and all my small shirts don't fit anymore. He doesn't like it and he's been nagging me to start working out before I get too fat. Just recently I had haircut because of falling hair and he doesn't like it. Well, I prefer that than not being noticed at all although sometimes it really annoys me.

exciting story.well my husband been together for almost 3 years,and we've chatting sending letters with pictures and changing text messages for about a year..everynow and then she always told me that im sexy,im beautiful in his eyes even though i didn't felt i am:)lol..but i do really appreciate and enjoy what he said..like for example you cooking for meals,he gonna say thank you honey that's was a yummy dinner..what a beautiful feeling if u can hear that simple compliments it make ur day perfect::::)

Once in while I do get complimented by my husband of 30 years. Like when we were out eating in a restaurant he would say something like, you cook better than this. Sometimes he would say, if we have a daughter she must be beautiful like you. We only have sons. Little compliments make our hearts happy.

My boyfriend does give me compliments. Of course, I would not be one to complain if he felt moved to give me more compliments... Actually, I would not be one to complain if he were to bring me more treats or some shiny objects...

I feel the same as you, as I have not had a compliment for years from mine either.I think that in most peoples relationships things that people do or look like and the effort that people put into a relationship in not noticed as it is took for granted, shame really, mainly as they notice the people or the things around them that are less important, or nothing to do with your relationship.You are not a lone.

of course, i really to listen to compliment and sometimes it get so exaggerated that i know he's lying, but still t is like a melody to may ear. on the other hand i only make truthful compliment and i do not like to lie if there something that i need correction such as the way the hair get dishevel and the make up is over done. i tell it to the person i am concern so likely she would avoid being embarrass.

Unfortunately, I think a lot of relationships are like this. In the beginning when a relationship is just beginning, couples will compliment each other often, almost putting each other up on a pedestal, but as the years go on (especially if you're married) you begin to forget the positive things that brought the two of you together. Yes, you have to be attracted to your mate, but looks are not what keep you in the relationship. It's a "total package" deal. Your personality and character come into play and your spouse/mate will stay with you because of those features above anything else. It's sad though, when men and women start fantasizing about someone not within their reach, forgetting what they have right in front of them. Just remember your own self worth, and how important it is for you to love yourself. No one should have to change (and I'm not talking about habits or bad addictions) to keep the one they've got.

My partner always take notice of how I look, dress or how my make up is. And he always give me compliment. We have been together for 4 years and he's been doing that since day 1 and I am really loving it!

hi in my life,i hav got a wonderful husband ...he never comliants abt my talents or looks...bt sometimes he ll tease me to make compromise...if he tries to compromise me then the love between us would increase day by day...so i never mind wen he tease me....i love him so much..bec he loves me lot n cares me lot n esp he can give his life to me at any time..tats a true love n affection n tat is life between two hearts........

My partner tells me I'm beautiful all time and I really appreciate it. He cooks almost every night! I'm so fortunate and I'll never take him for granted. I'm sorry that your partner doesn't treat you quite as well as maybe you want him to but maybe that will change soon! Have you tried telling him how you feel about it?

Some spouses are not vocal when it comes to this matter while others are so sweet to appreciate their partner. My partner knows how to appreciate me in many ways and that made me love him more.

My husband also isn't complimenting me in my looks or talents. That's how he is even when we are still sweetheart. But i can see from the look in his eyes when he finds me nice in a dress or i am good at my opinion. But there was a times, when he told me a story that his friend complimented me on my being of good breeding. And i asked him , " but why don't i hear any compliment from you if you are amenable to it too? " He said " that's because i don't like your head to swell." Thus , from then on i know why.

Nice question but my danger and sweet hubby not like to give the compliment even they not like to say three words "I love you" they said not necessary only on talking we feel love understand to each other is to show yes we love to each other. I ask many time when I got a price in chess or I passed with good percentage in MCM how you feel they say hmmmm nice okk..

At times I don't understand why people do things like that. To win someone over they say everything to make a person feel good and like the person for the compliments but then after awhile being together things just stop. I don't do that. I compliment my girl friend all of the time. More in one day and I do continue to do so because she is wonderful to me. It would be a different story if she was being a but hole and just doing things to hurt people but that's not the case. I am sure you a being a wonderful woman. He is just in la la land I guess.

All the time! My husband never fails to tell me that he likes what I'm wearing, that I'm beautiful, that he's lucky and that he even misses my cooking which is a total bull because I know I am not a good cook, haha! I know sometimes he would exaggerate but of course I appreciate it so much and I admit that it makes me feel good and happy to hear those compliments from him.

I would guess that he is just clueless as to how this has changed. If you find yourself feeling distant or neglected, maybe you can find a way to speak up about it. Not in a demanding way, of course, but playfully or intimately. I've heard it said before that we remember negative messages longer than positive messages, so we need to make sure we flood our relationships with positive messages for our loved ones to hold on to. It's definitely something you can ask for and try to model.