Beauty with brains!
By wishjui
@wishjui (271)
India
November 24, 2012 3:14am CST
I would have started this discussion in the category of named 'women' but I preferred this because I wanted everyone to participate and share.
How much you believe that a beautiful women can be an intelligent one too? Is a beautiful women a showpiece to the possessor? Be it a husband or an employer?
Do men prefer beautiful women over an intelligent wife or girlfriend? Do men marry a beautiful lady or an intelligent one? or all prefer the combination of both?Do men think that this combination is rare or lethal???
As my per observation I have seen the advertisement for job vacancies or matrimonial, all ask for good looking, experience and with good knowledge in work or other experiences.At the time of meeting I wonder how many get the real combination or they just get satisfied with the looks... or only the intelligence!
How to react if we find the both? Do people believe and accept that both beauty and brains can exist in one single person? Do they think that both together can be lethal?
If yes why? if no why?
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12 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
I think a woman who has both beauty and brain could be something very rare because usually, a woman who makes so much time in making herself beautiful does not have the patience to improve her self in other aspects. Her main focus is only on how she looks. On the other hand, a woman who just immerse herself with knowledge could barely have time to bother how she looks in front of the mirror.
If a man finds himself a woman with both beauty and brains, then he must be feeling most likely as that of a lottery winner!
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
I couldn't find another way of telling how a person can only be either beautiful or intelligent. I am glad you agree on how I have presented it...
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Yes, it's possible that both beauty and brains can exist in one, single person. I know a lot of women around me that are beautiful and intelligent at the same time. I know that they are so lucky to be beautiful and intelligent. They use them wisely to get good positions.They become more and more successful because of these qualities they possess. They should thank God for giving these blessings to them.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
I guess a number of women all of the world possess beauty and brains. We are lucky if we are included. Thanks for agreeing with me and for commenting on my response. Happy mylotting.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
24 Nov 12
A lot of men like a beautiful wife on their arms sometimes as a trophy to show other men that they are capable of having a beautiful wife, it's kinda like an ego status. But beauty doesn't last! And if you marry a woman just for their beauty, what happens when they get old, a lot of men will find a younger more attractive model. That is why a personality is equally important, so when the looks go you have the personality. For me, personality counts more than brains and looks. I want a companion someone I can relate to, enjoy being with and have mutual interests and tastes, not someone I can show off or as an ego booster, I value women more than that.
@wishjui (271)
• India
25 Nov 12
Hi! I asked that whether both the beauty and brain can exists together or not!
I very well know the trend of having a trophy wife or beautiful dumbos working!!!
I asked whether the both could be found together or not?
Single quality could seen easily but having the combination is a rare case.. or not!
Thanks for joining Wolfie!
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
Actually, there are many beautiful women who are brainy too. There are just misconceptions that beautiful women are not brainy. One should really not judge a person by it looks no matter how beautiful or ugly she is. What matter is a woman of character.
Thanks for this.
Have a nice day!
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
24 Nov 12
Yes, why not if she is fortunate one. But they are not spared from problems too. Lethal in one way. About if men prefer beauty over intelligence it depends on them. Remember friend that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. One can see a woman's beauty yet the other one sees different thing.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
24 Nov 12
hi Mavic123456,
yes i agree it depends on the people who see and how they see. If everyone think that only fair and tall girls are beautiful then all the girls who are opposite to that would have remained single so far.But that's not case .God is really intelligent you see.
@naryshkashian (139)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
well i believe that physical appearance has something to do with catching someone's attention but in the end, many will agree that the content and the character of a person is what really matters... just think about hollywood... I mean some couples who's marriage failed are like beautiful people but still the marriage fails, which for me proves that physical appearance though has a role in a relationship, may it be employer/employee or boy/girl relationship, what really matters in the end is someone's content :)
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
26 Nov 12
First concern should be compatibility. Of course a woman can be both beautiful and intelligent, but great beauty often brings on conceit, which is not attractive..
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
24 Nov 12
There is no reason that beauty and brains cnnot coexist together. beautiful people are also smart and educated people. on the other hND YOU do not Hace to be unattreCRTIVE to know what you are talking about.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
24 Nov 12
wow that is awesome to hear,because only very rarely we find people of that caliber and such kind who look great and talk with idealistic sense too
@Ahana123 (139)
• India
24 Nov 12
Beauty lies in the heart of an individual. Good looks can surely win over person as an first impression but brains behind beauty is what survives in that long run what I feel. It all depends on one's choice to decide whether to go for dumb beauty / a person with brains.
@TomDawg24 (79)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Wow, this topic is really something. As a man, i would see women that have both more attractive. But that would be really rare. So for me, personally, i don't look for women that are that beautiful but instead i look for someone who i can get along with easily. For jobs, i think having the brains is much more important and having the Beauty part is a PLUS factor.
