I am in love with my friend

November 24, 2012 5:32am CST
I am in love with my college friend.But I am really confused.I want to tell her about my feelings but I don't know what to do.If she got angry with me I will lose a true friend and of course my love
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6 responses
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
Coming out of the friend zone is really a risky thing to do. Confessing that you have intimate affection with your friend is somewhat an awkward moment you wished to overcome. My suggestion is that you tell her in a way that she wouldn't react negatively on such news that you want her to tell. Tell her nicely that she wouldn't get off on your friendship because of the confession you had made.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
I understand your fear, but in my opinion- its better that you confess your feelings towards her than keeping it with you. Taking the chance that the feeling is mutual is the best thing to do. Granting that she may feel bad, but I am sure that she will understand. If she won't acknowledge your love, be happy at least you were able to let her know. How will you know if she loves you or not if you won't make the first move...give it a try and nothing to lose.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
24 Nov 12
If you fall in love with your friend then you should try to tell her because you should brave and prepare for facing the situation. If she refuse your love then you should not force to her and ready to accept her view. Do not worry about result but tell your feeling with your friend.
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
You don't have to be scared of that. If she really is a friend, she would understand. Emotions are emotions and it would always be better to tell the people that you care for that you care for them. Life is so short and so make the best out of it.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
You should tell her what you feel. I am sure she would understand , now if she don't feel the same way then you can still be friends. True friends don't get mad easily and they will understand. My friend once fell in love with me and he told me about it but since I don't feel the same as he felt I told him sorry and that only friendship I can offer. We remain friends, I even help him find a new girl. I didn't get mad at him because that's what he felt he's just been honest to me about his feelings.
@Anshee (49)
• India
24 Nov 12
Dont make it so fast, if its been too long time then yeah in that case you can tell her, and dont worry that you will loose her no wont, if she loves you the way you do than i must say you guys gonna be the luckiest one but if there were no feelings from her side than sorry to say but oviosly you will feel heart broke but m sure you wont loose her as she will understand, dear friend have greatest understanding so dont worry and yeah chill its not necessary that love always reciprocate rather people mature and stay friend... Well besties from my side hope you get your love soon, god bless