My Boyfriend is Having a Mood Swings ;(
By hlfbldmom
@hlfbldmom (743)
Philippines
November 24, 2012 5:49am CST
Hey this has been confusing me for a bit so I thought I would find out what you guys think.
My boyfriend is having a mood swings again. This is the second time he's having a mood swings. The first one was when he knows I am pregnant. I flew back to my country we were okay, he drove me to the airport, he is sad when I left and said we will be together again soon, but when I got back home and I got online I am shocked. He deleted me on his list on skype, facebook and didn't replied on my mail, not answering my phone calls either. Then after two weeks he added me back and we talk about it. He said sorry for what he did and he told me that we will start a new and that he did those things because he thinks that he is not ready to have a family he is scared that everything will be miserable for him. So I told him that I understand and I hope it won't happen again. He promised me it will not happen again and that he will be honest to me in everything. He did change, he is more concern and he is always there, he told me everything. But today, he got mood swings again. When i woke up this morning I tried to send him a message on facebook and his facebook was deactivated. I tried on skype but he deleted me. We don't have any fight last night. We were happy talking about my visa applications and that I will be with him soon. So now, I am so pissed of that he did it again without telling me what's wrong. So, Should I just leave him when he got a mood swings?
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7 responses
@mrshubert13 (200)
• United States
24 Nov 12
Wow idk if thats a mood swing or someone acting like they hiding something.me and my fiancee goes thru alot and I can say he wont remove me he will just text me but I think its time to call it quits bcuz everytime some not going right he gonna remove and block you no no
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@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
24 Nov 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well it was very bad to hear about the mood swings of your boyfriend and i would recommend u to leave him forever. i mean knowing the fact that someone is willing to spend her whole life with you, how can he be so insensitive and immature towards you. He is changing his colors every now and then so how can you expect u and your child to be caring and loving. I think it is not too late and u should leave him forever for good.
What say?
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
24 Nov 12
Wow that is a lot. I'm sorry to hear that he is treating you this way. Especially when you are pregnant. That would make me very annoyed. Especially when he said he wouldn't not do that again. It is hard to know what to do about that since he is not allowing you to talk to him. What country does he live in, and what area do you live in? I hope that he does not try to abandon his responsibilities. That would be awful.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
He got a preggy mood swings to the extreme haha. He is miles away from me, he's in Australia while I am in Philippines right now. I will have to go back there next month before Christmas but since he is having his annoying moods maybe not anymore.I am sure he won't but he might not see my baby if he continue being like this. I am not bad but maybe I will be bad this time.
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
30 Dec 12
I hope that things are better for you and your boyfriend.How has the trip that you have taken to australia go? That is a great deal to travel. I hope that things are better for your relationship's sake and for your little babies sake. Let me know how your doing.
@Arieles (2473)
• United States
24 Nov 12
I think you have every right to be annoyed. What really irritates me about (men and women) who say they are not ready to be part of a family of have a family, yet they continue to have intimate relationships with women. Your not ready to have a family? Then you are not ready to have an intimate relationship with a woman. These are boy men, men with an adult body, but have a "boy" attitude. Let your guy know that he's either in this or not. You have a baby on the way, it's time for him to grow up or keep his zipper shut. A relationship can not be successful unless their is communication, and if there is only one partner doing all the communicating, it's not a healthy relationship. It's your choice whether or not you want to leave him, but from the sounds of it, he won't be much help when the baby arrives if you stay with him.
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@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
it is really annoying.. he already did it to once and he will do it again now.. i understand that he might having hard times to accept the fact that he will have a family now.. but he should also considerate to you because you are pregnant and you should have not bad feelings that it might affect the baby.. but if you can just try to understand again your boyfriend.. just patiently wait for him.. and don`t think too much..
@gilenie (190)
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25 Nov 12
whoa what a guy! Sis you better talk to him seriously ask him if he is really that serious to you, he should act like a man to face you and your future baby.It cannot be always like this... if he feel he wanted to left you he just ignore you! thats so cruel...You have also think twice if you really wanted to stay in this kind of relationship..He cant just hang you like that.Im sure you dnt wanna be with this type of guy in your whole life...He is not the only man in this world...
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
25 Nov 12
It sounds to me like he is playing games with you or he is afraid to be a father. Or he's got something else going on. Or he's not ready to take on responsibilities. Either way, if he is going to continue on with this mood swing, were one moment he's all caring and excited and then the next moment he's removing you and not talking to you. Then you should ask yourself what you want to do with this situation. Do you want to try and make it work and then also you have to think about your baby and what is best for them as well. But to me it sounds like he's not going to change. Just cause one moment he changed and then the next he's back to his old self again. Maybe you should tell him that if he doesn't shape up then you are leaving with the baby and that is that. See how he likes the idea of you guys not being together any more.
