anyone help me please!
By ounikage
@ounikage (24)
Indonesia
7 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
24 Nov 12
To fall in love is not a choice but a feeling. It's also not the same as love. There are people who are able to say: I want to fall in love today/this week and they do. To make someone fall in love with you is hard. First of all that person has to be aware of you being there/existing. Secondly that person has to get interested in you one way or the other. This interest has to change in attraction. For that you both need to have things in common. Real things, so not just in your mind. Also the chance to make someone fall in love with you will be very low if the difference in education, social environment is different. So do not aim your arrow on a person that is not reachable for you. If that would work at all it won't for long.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
25 Nov 12
hard? It sounds to me you are not willing to do or invest anything for what you really want.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
4 Dec 12
Honestly there is no way that you can make someone fall in love with you. Have you told the person that you are in love with how you feel about them. If not then maybe you want to start there in seeing if they feel the same way and go from there. If they don't feel the same way, then there is nothing more that you can do and just move on. And if it is meant to be then they will eventually come around.
@sajujohn (1005)
• India
25 Nov 12
First of all to fall in love is a great thing. It's one of the greatest feeling in this earth. Congrats for that. But to make other person love you is not that much easy. For that the other person should know evreything about you. Inorder to that try to make friendship with him and make him feel that you care and love him so much and do whatever you can to please him. Even then it's all depend on him how he react to that. Therefore just pray and All the Best !!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
I am glad to know that you are in love. It is really such a wonderful feeling. But we should not hang on to the belief of having that person we love to love as back just the way we want them. I think if you get to know each other better and that person sees just how amazing you are as a person, then maybe you'd hit your luck. Just be yourself and make him realize that you are special.
@Arieles (2473)
• United States
25 Nov 12
We can't make people fall in love with us, but we can take an interest in them. You've developed feelings for this person, and you would like to explore those feelings. It helps if you are both in the same social circles. Ask this person out, go on a date, find some common ground. If the date goes well, ask again. Find out what the person likes to do, when you find something you both have in common, build on that. You might get a really good friend, who eventually falls in love with you. Good luck.
@naryshkashian (139)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
you don't make people fall in love with you because when you do that you try to do things that that is NOT normally you and when he/she falls in love with you you won;t feel like doing them anymore because you already have them and then the person realizes he/she fell in love with somebody else and the relationship won't last long. the best way to love a person is without reason at all, when you feel that way already, then it's true love...
@Rozeena (61)
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24 Nov 12
You can't make someone fall in love all you can do is show your intrest, present the best image you can and hope he/ she will develop feelings for you Good luck