If you were on my firend's shoes
By bronco826
@bronco826 (40)
Philippines
November 24, 2012 11:50am CST
i have friend of mine was broke up with his boyfriend 2 months ago,the relationship was finished by his bf,because of some behavior and his bf said "The consequences is to full" they have 2 years been on relationship,my friend is so sad coz he love his bf.she didnt think that his bf finished the relationship with her,she told me she realized that however someone loves you there has always boundary.she trying to get him back but she is failed.i know my friend is not cheating on him only some childish attitude she had,she was regret how she treated his bf before.but now i am surprised of what she told me lately.after 2 month no communication his bf called her 4 times last week ago,but no meaning if they can get back each other anymore.
guys if you were on my friend's shoes would you rather get back to his bf or remain as friend if the bf want her back again?thanks guy
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2 responses
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
24 Nov 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i can understand your friend's situation and i am sure she must be heartbroken after this incident. i think she should be firm and determined now and should not respond to him. If he can broke up then she also has the right to avoid him. What is the point of calling her continuously when he has left her before. I think u should support your friend and help her overcome such a heartbreak.
What say?
@bronco826 (40)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
thanks for the response my friend is still not yet move on.if i were here i would be doing to ignore him,coz you are right her bf finished the relationship with her so she had the right to avoid him now.i dont know whats is the point of her bf calling back after 2 months.thanks
@passion4fassion (996)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
the relationship is for the 2 person who have trust respect and love to each other if one of them doesn't want to stay in the relationship it means the partner will need to move one, sometimes its depend on the situation but the main things is if you broke up with your partner it means something is missing in the rekationship you need to think before you accept him/her again?
@bronco826 (40)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
i think my friend still love him her bf love her so much.maybe if they give chance start over again my friend will be nice because it was all her fault and she adjust everything.i hopw they will be fine.weather they get back again or not
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
24 Nov 12
Ex = exit. Over = the end. Your friend better start living again, setting her own goals instead of living in the past, hoping for a new chance. I hope she learned from her childish behaviour. Knows now how to behave in what way at a certain moment. She will have plenty of other life experiences, meet a lot of other people in her life, they won't all stay, they also can't stay. There is a time to come and a time to leave. I think it's useless to start again also I do not see the need to stay friends with him. Especially not as long as she did not pick up her own life again. The ideas in her head, her behaviour and hopes will only destroy any kind of relationship.
@bronco826 (40)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
thanks for nice response,you are right that my friend need to exit.i think she learned now.because she realized after all is finished.
