Back with a bang!!
By riyauro
@riyauro (6421)
India
November 25, 2012 12:31am CST
Hi guys I have been away for about 10 days from mylot. I have been through lots in these 10 days. My in laws had a big fight with me and hubby.. I tell you how it all started. It was a whole week feast in the chapel next to our house and my hubby's sister had also come for a day to go to the feast. She has not been talking to me since the day we have started doing better in life. we have done the house so well for the restaurant and the furniture and everything is in abundance now. So she is not talking to me and neither sending her son to our side.
The polishers were still at work and they were doing the washroom side and all the floor was covered with polish and hubby could not go to the toilet so he so the sisters son other side and went to play with him. He thought he might visit the washroom also at the same time at his parents side. As soon as he entered the house, they started shouting at him and the father even cam to hit him.. The sister also shouting that why he has come that side when they do not come our side. Hubby never thought that they are treating us like enemies. my Goodness than they call the police and take hubby to the station.
Hubby told me to call his boss and tell him. His boss reached the station before they could reach with hubby. The police saw hubby's boss there and started apologizing to hubby and the boss that they took hubby to station for this no reason. His boss took him with him and the father and sister were barking there..
The boss came home later and had a talk with hubby's parents.. they are no use talking to and he told hubby that those people will not change and told us not to even look at them. They are so stupid people I tell you.. When the sister was shouting out loud and fighting, she is saying that this house in which we stay in is hers.. hahaha, can you believe that how greedy one can be. Hubby's parents have bought a flat for her and a car also plus her daily expense also they give. Plus another plot next to the house is also hers and the big double storey house in which the parents stay now is for the other brother plus they have bought a flat for other son in the other city. The other son and daughter are after the house me and hubby staying in now because we have made it better now and it looks very nice..The house was closed for 20 years then none of them had the brains to make it. Now that we are here and we have paid some amount for it as well, they are after this one also..
Have you been through like people like this who do this to one's own brother and sister??
In this tension I did not even pay the bill for the net. I paid yesterday, so now I am here..
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7 responses
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
25 Nov 12
Hi riyauro! I miss you on here my friend, and I'm glad to hear you're back, although I have to admit that I am not happy to hear your ordeal with your in-laws.
Our problems with my dad's family is similar to yours, they also want to get everything and leave my dad with nothing. Well, since my dad is one of the legal heirs and this issue has been going on for decades, we just leave everything for the court to decide on and life for us goes on. We are not like them who stopped working and just wait for the outcome. Well, whatever the result may be we're ready and have made our own so we don't really care at all. We also ent far away from them so they can all fight amongst themselves and we don't care.
I'm sorry to hear that your husband's own family seem to take it badly that their own son and brother is doing well. At least you still have wonderful people on your side who know the real you and will always take kindly to you and your husband.
Good luck on your new business venture, and hope you stay more here.
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@riyauro (6421)
• India
25 Nov 12
I miss you too raine. I would love to be more here as well and i would try to. I would have been if I had net. haha. anyway, we have not asked the inlaws anything and we will not even look at them. Yeah there are people like this and this people are poor and will have no one by their side when they will need help. the daughter and the other son are filling the parents ears and they are also the same to hear them. We do not need them. They have no respect in the society as people know the story. neighbors are all laughing at them and they are like hiding inside the house all the time. we are free and have no guilt and our hearts are clean, so the neighbors love me and hubby.. They are all for us and that makes it better for me. I am going to put a taller fence now so that do have to see there face..
it is sad that one's own family does this. never mind no one is for anyone. even the mother turns from the child. you can imagine whst kind of mother she will be. Ganging up on her own son. my goodness. Don't wanna see that b**** face anymore. I have had it enough.
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@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
25 Nov 12
Well at least you have each other now and you have good friends who believe in you. You right, you don't need these kind of people and you will be far off better without them. But still, I hope that someday they will see the error of their ways and they come to their senses to make amends and make things right for you and their son.
@besweet (9859)
• Ireland
25 Nov 12
Welcome back! :-)
I agree, you should stay away from those people. I can't imagine how a parent would call the police for his child. Anyway, the only thing you can do now is support your husband because I can imagine that he is very shocked and dissapointed with them.
If they still have any legal rights on the house you should also be prepared for everything, so it would be a good idea to start saving money now that things work well for you.
I hope you won't have to deal with them again soon. Have a nice day!
@riyauro (6421)
• India
25 Nov 12
thanks besweet. yeah it was shocking the way they have behaved thought they used to ignore us before when it comes to help us in any particular way.. I myself had never had any expectations from them but in hubby's heart it was like they are my parents but now he has learnt his lesson and I mine as well..Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead..
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
It does seem that you had one difficult week. It's hard to say what to do about it except hope and pray for the best. There were similar problems before within our father's side of the family but fortunately it did not escalate to a very dangerous degree. It did go on for long though, but now everything is going back to normal slowly. I guess it's hard to immediately just forgive and forget when harsh things have been said and done, but in time, wounds would hopefully heal. Anyway, as I have said earlier, I just hope and pray for the best for you and your family. I'm not around most of the time also, but I am trying to as well, so I'll see you around then.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
hello riya,
Sorry to hear what happened.
I just hope that you will stand for your right and fight for your right as a person.
If they treat your husband like other people at least you have proved and showed to him that you are different from his family and that matters most.
Take care my friend
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
25 Nov 12
I'm glad you're "back with a bang"; but I wish there were happier reasons of your absence. That's really an unfortunate circumstances you were faced to deal with. And it must be hard to have to live that way while the parties in disagreement are living in such close proximity.
I may have to be here less also for a week or so as I have visitors coming from the States. I will be busy offline, but I hope my absence from here is because of such happy family occasion...
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
Welcome back Riya , though you've been into so much with the family , still you manages to come and write , that's the spirit ! Don't be carried away with those negative people , keep on doing good! Don't mind them , not worthy for your time and attention . Why they're that greedy ? Sometimes it really happens especially if people are becoming too materialistic , wanting for more and more forgetting the needs and rights of others. You go on Raine live your honest ,sincere life , let them envy you as much as they can and remain humble , respectful and hardworking. God bless you in all your endeavors.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
25 Nov 12
Hi Riya!
First of all - we were missing you and your posts here. Thank God you are back.
Your posts tells the reasons of your absence.
I felt sad to read the post and I could well imagine the mental trauma of going to a Police station.
It is a clear case of jealously.
Your in laws apparently do not want you people to flourish and succeed.
I have seen that - Parents are always supportive of their sons and daughter, how could your parents in law could be so heartless, is not understandable.
Anyway, despite these odds and challanges you and your hubby should move ahead and should make your business a success.
Our best wishes are with you.
All the best.