What Real Love is all About?

Yes GilMegans, very true - take all the time that you need. And you know why there are lots of small problems that resulted to a huge hurtful outcomes, because human as we are tend decide under the influence of extreme emotions. We cant see the beauty of the whole forest if we are inside the forest, but when we decide to get out of the forest, take time to walk through even if its a long journey because at the end of the road and from a distance view, you will see the beauty it brings as whole. Empty you back pack GilMegans, and as for our first step is take a deep breath, you don't have to know all the reasons why, you think you might fall but all you got to do is try because EVEN ANGELS LEARN TO FLY. Have a great day. :)

Thank you very much M'am grace147, as long as I have the heart feel and mind to understand what really LOVE is all about, I stood firmly to my position. And in the event however that I will never comprehend and recognize the word LOVE, i will left everything on me to God for Him to direct me on my way going to a place where I am rightfully belong. Momentarily, I'll stick to my faith and LOVE, and lets see what's happen next beyond of this things. Thank you ma'am and have a great day ahead too.

My utmost appreciation m'am grace147 for your best encouraging words and yet a reminder too. Why sometimes we felt complexity to understand on what was really the real essence of love? It maybe bcoz the effort we put forth is insufficient and piteous? Or shall I say it cannot copiously reciprocate to the love that our partner is expecting for? Well, it's just merely the fundamental questions to us, yet it requirs ample time to ponder. In reliance to your point m'am grace147 I really appreciated it. It will eventually gives me further strength to surmount whatever trials arise in our rapport. And I used it all together as an avenue to utilize the power of FAITH and LOVE in order to establish a sturdy foundation of understanding and courage as much as possible no matter what happen in the near future. Further, i will try to anticipate all the possibilities of misapprehension and be more lenient at all times as much as I can. And if it is a prerequisite to swallow everything what's on me, I humbly submit and abide by. Nevertheless, all the things here in this world have its individual timeline even those who still exist. Same goes to a human feelings, if you failed to reciprocate each other's love, a possibility of failure will swiftly occupy its room and it maybe resulted to constant misunderstanding until it will ended up into hurtful breakup. But in as far as REAL LOVE is concerned, everyone has the chance to rectify whatever shortcomings goes along your way. Detouring to another way in order for you to flee the obstacles positioned on the road cannot certainly makes you faster on your travel and still you will fail to arrive earlier to your point of destination. Sticking to one direction could give us more patient to wait until the traffic decongested. Same goes to a relationship, we don't need to hurry, we shall need to wait for the right time and add more courage for you to last.

well,being hurts is not easy,its make u insane.but it make u a better person,from being who u are from the past...just be wise person to handle about love coz sometimes it makes u blind!

Thank you for your words of encouragement swetify620, precisely, loving someone makes a person dull. Even how intelligent you are but in terms of love you cannot think and decide good things because you are blinded by your feelings that makes you insane.

Thanks a lot swetify620 for your views. Firstly, I am willing to give up everything just for the sake of my love only in the first instance. But in my second try, i need to be intelligent enough to handle things in reliance to a real love. Being hurt is the very horrible experienced our life could have been experienced, and it will give us hint on how to handle such recurring cases at times when it will occur.

You are indeed correct think_twice, it is a kind of feeling wherein no one has the ability to fully determine the real meaning and essence of it. True love can be found everywhere, anywhere and anytime as long as you believe of what you've felt according to the will and dictation of your heart. We should open our heart, freely accept coming in emotions/feelings, give time to ponder things in consonance with it and once developed reciprocate the same.

Hi asliah! yes you are absolutely right, engaging into a certain commitment or relationship needs openly acceptance of all possibilities may transpire hereto. Further, we should be flexible in handling things in line with attitude, shortcomings and conflict intervention. Limitations as you've mentioned has its proper place to put into, don't limit your patience as long as you can handled it proficiently - however, in the occasion that your endurance cannot withstand on the events occurred involving abusive attitude by your partner, that's the time that you will give time to quite for the even-handedness of yourself. Love is very powerful - it will change everything unexpectedly.

Yes maintenance is very important when it comes to love. Jealousy, pain, doubts turns love into a roller coaster. It is rare to find love and keep that love blooming.

Exactly, because it's a normal feeling when we are in love. What we need to do to maintain its momentum is that just we must free our heart of doubts, fears, pain and jealousy.

Hi kokomo, good luck to your love life, I just had hoped that you can surpass and overcome all the trials in your relationship. Just hold your faith to God and follow the desire of your heart and mind so that the happiness that you are looking for will be yours forevermore. Keep on loving. Good luck!

Hi sender621, yes you are correct it is a great emotion wherein lovers must be reciprocate on it in order to arrived at the real love and total happiness they wanted for. Thank you then.

Thank you subhojit10 for sparing your time to share your opinion on this issue. Truly indeed that it takes more time and patient to determine the true essence of it and how to fully established a real love. Sometimes, we are uncertain and compelled to think beyond our imagination in order for us to arrived at the final conclusion if what real of deceiving. But in as far as the real love is concerned, we are in need to submit ourselves to value our respect pf love to a person that we cared for in spite of all trials and circumstances that will occurs along our way...

Thanks for the compliment mariaperalta. You're absolutely right, maintaining good friendship to loving couple/partner is actually adjacent to a real love and it is limitless. Never let a commitment be a reason or barrier through a sustainable love.

I really appreciate your words of encouragement hlfbldmom. You're absolutely hit the point. Experience-wise, sometimes we are drag to our hypothetical imagination and fantasy that we are indeed in a perfect love. But the reality is, successful relationship definitely requires long term patience and courage. We need to sacrifice something for the sake of our happiness whether we succeed or not at least we give a try.