my husband is a workaholic & about to freak out

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My husband is an architect who works in a private company. He works at daytime and when he comes home at night, he still do other works to earn extra money even during Sundays. I can't argue with him because he thinks of future expenses when our child will be born this end of the year.Not only that, he is also the breadwinner of his family. He still sends financial support to his brothers and her mother who has an ailment.From the moment that he scolded me for asking 'why do you have still to send financial support' to his family though not directly, what he is trying to say is that I am not very supportive to his family.I am the wife but when his brothers & mother knocks to his heart, he can't say no, he will try everything to give them what they asked. From that moment on, I decided to just let him do what is good. I don't want his family feel that they are loosing a son or a brother. Although I am also employed in a private company. My salary is still not enough to add up for our expenses due to the fact that I use my money to pay for the hospital package fee & check-ups for my nearing childbirth.Sometimes, I can't resist myself from getting absent from work due to feeling of fatigue, which I tend to sleep all day rather than work. It's good that I already applied for maternity leave few weeks ago. Oh, also, he doesn't want me to do heavy chores at home because he is worried about my condition (being in the third trimester & nearing childbirth). Sometimes, I see & feel that he is already stressed, but he still have this fighting spirit to continue his task. I think he is nervous & excited becoming a father. I can feel he is a bit afraid of the next chapter in our life- becoming a father & the breadwinner. Does any one experienced this before? Anyone who can advise me, so that I can help ease the feelings of my husband who might freak out?