not capable of friendship..

of course we must love our friends, but maybe your friend is talking about different kind of love. Maybe you need to talk with him and clarify what kind of love you are referring with and what kind of love he has in mind. I love my friends, like how I love my family.

There is always love in friendship. But, of different levels. Different levels of love. When we have a friend, it is understood that we love and care for them. But loving a friend romantically is different. Once you feel it, it is so hard to forget it. There is always hope that one day he will love you back. Not until you found yourself in love with someone else.

Don't take your friends words to heart. i believe that everyone is cvapabe of friindship. you just need to have the connection to build on.love and friendship can grow together but they can also be swparate too. it all depends on the relationship you have. don't give up on love or friendship. they are both needed.

Hi friend, i agree, it is really hard to separate friendship from love. Since friendship is the beginning stage of love and every lovers are good friends and share their things with each other. I wonder why your lover said this words to you. Hope he is still loving you and you both have a good understanding with each other

Its such a hurting part if love is not be given to you but you know, try to weigh yourself?I had once fallen in love with my bestfriend he said he cant love me back but he also didn't know how to live without me, he cries when i told him i am quitting but i do realize why do i insist him to love me back? I didn't pursue but what is now important to me even he cant love me back the way i wanted him to love me.We are still best buddy til now.I do entertain courting of guy to me.In that way my mind will not stick to him but still our friendship is intact.

I think friendship and love are way different, it has some good sides as well as the bad sides. Personally I'm not in Love but I know some of my friends who are in Love. The point is they don't remain the same, in a way they used to be.I mean they will not hang up with you like they earlier used to be. That's only I can say...

okay Angsel you like him as a friend a soulmate bu t he wants to take friendship up to love;. I cannot see hou you can go so far as soul mates and not be in lo ve as thats way more than just friendship. I was best friends with my husband then soulmates thn loved him and was still his best friend,Soul mates so close to being in love its really hard not to say I have fallen in love so lets get married.really all has some love in it but romantic love takes more than just like to move to soulmates then to romantic love e.Too many times one wants the top level romantic l ove and the daqnger of becoing soulmates is one wants it all and the other just wants soulmaterds. just a teensy bit removed from romantic love.

Your soulmate told you that he couldn't be your friend because he wants you to love him. Did I get it right? Well, I guess you feel sad because the feeling isn't mutual. I guess you only love him as a friend. Tell him what you feel towards him and explain that it isn't possible. I guess it will just destroy your friendship if he will insist what he wants.

You say, he is your soul mate, this means you are made for each other; i fail to understand what he means by 'love'; is it love making, i am confused..

For me, i think you are partly right on saying that friendship and love are inseparable, but you must point out what kind of love does that mean? coz there are many kinds of love, love for your parents, family, brother, sister & etc. So if you mean that the kind of love you are pointing out is love of friendship then you are right. but if that would mean another love or affection for someone then it is not the same.

No, friendship and love are not inseparable. You have to be friends before you can love. We don't just "fall in love." There has to be some kind of friendship first before love can even develop. You might like the way a person looks, which means you are attracted to them. Love will develop over time, you can't have love without friendship.

Hi, I think your friend is wrong. If you love with friend and you said frankly that you are in love with him,he should have been said that he is not interested in love. But breaking friendship is not fair. You can continue friendship. It must be very insulting for you when he reacted like this.

love started in the form of friendship only but its based on the understanding of a boy and a girl

some times friendship turns into love,many times friendship is the starting point for love..... make sure if you will be free without him or not,and make sure if you will alive without him or not.,if cant live without him then you have a decision with you

In my opinion, friends are always good . Some friends are fake friends . My some friends are fake and other friends are good .

Maybe he is talking about the romantic type of love. Perhaps he is not looking for that with your friendship. Or that he sees you as hoping for something more. I hope though that no matter what happens you two are able to stay friends. It is hard when one person is feeling something and another is not. It can cause a lot of heartache.

Hi Angelpink, it depends how you define "love" towards your friendship. If it is just normal caring and greetings between friends, that is fine. But if it goes beyond certain boundary in friendship which related to a personal love within the friendship, then this is a different matter. We cannot be in love in every friendship we have. We can only have one love partner, and others remain a friendship. In normal friendship, we don't touch on love unless both of you are prepared to start a different level of relationship. So, don't get hurt with what he says. Maybe he is not the right guy you are looking for. You will get to find your love life partner when time comes. No hurry in it. So, treat all friendship normally and try not to mix it up with your love feeling. Wish you a nice day. =)