job and love thingking?who can give me some suggestion?
By betty1989
@betty1989 (751)
China
November 26, 2012 5:18am CST
I fall in love on my college and i am a diligent student and i won a lot of awards. my boy friend and i live in the different city. It is great pity. what i hope most is to stay with hime forever. so i quit my job in a big and beautiful city. i think i would have a promising future since i am so industrious on my college life. But now what make me sad is it is hard to find a job in this small place. i am worried about my future. we are together now. is it worth? who can give me some suggestion?i can not bear we are living in the different place. if i am sad, who can comfort me?
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4 responses
@venkaiahreddy (10)
• India
27 Nov 12
I understood your problem.but it is very difficult to answer.
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@canthandlethetooth (91)
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26 Nov 12
Hi! I guess you have decided so for me, what you should do now is to make a stand to what you have done. Love endures everything. Do not worry (though it is really difficult not to). After all, the first step is really the most difficult and once you have overcome it, everything will be better.
@betty1989 (751)
• China
26 Nov 12
thanks, i will stand to my love. true love is difficult to seek. if i give up , where is my true love?
@nani4ajay (108)
• India
26 Nov 12
Hi whatever it may you got your love I really salute for your sacrifice to love, now think about the future try to adjust to the current situation, many people who do like you will face this type of problem but be hopeful, take a step by step process to come out of the hard times and make sure that you should not depressed, no problem join in any job and go on to face the problem together I WISH U SUCCESS and HAPPYNESS.
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@betty1989 (751)
• China
26 Nov 12
this time, i really need courage to hug my new beginning. thanks
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
26 Nov 12
I think that it would be best for you to stay focused on your career. Is there a possibility that he could move to your city. I think that it would be important to try and have a compromise somewhere. If you give up your career and relationship doesn't work out you will regret your decision. If you can a way to keep your career and relationship that will probably make you the most happiest.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
21 Dec 12
I hope that things are going well for you. I hope that he appreciates what you have done in order to be with him. I also hope that you will be able to get your career back like you want. Have a good day.
@betty1989 (751)
• China
26 Nov 12
my boyfriend is just having the new job. it is impossible for him to go with me for some reasons. that why i make up my mind to go with hime. career and love are so important. i have gave up one, i should strive to get back it. thanks
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@lini000 (35)
• China
26 Nov 12
I had ever faced with the same situation as you. However, maybe I was not brave enough to give up my familiar environment, especially my parents, just in order to live with my boyfriend. It was rather tough for the period. Finally, I choosed to give up my lover and live with the parents. Just as my mother said, the parents will never leave you when you are in pain, but the lover maybe. And the love thing is just the feeling and custom that you think it cannot be losed, but when you get older, you will find out your true love never let you feel so painful and anxious.
@betty1989 (751)
• China
26 Nov 12
now i just pray that i am doing the right things. a voice coming from deep inside keep telling man you should follow your heart. i also hope to live with my parents. after you leave, do you find another one you love and you still can live with your parents?
