Success or fail, it depends on individual

The destination is less important; what matters more is the journey. :)

anyway, if you ever strive for the success, that is OK. we enjoy the process, not the result, right?

Yes, it always depends on an individual. They say that there is no mantra for success and if you are successful, everything that you do is deemed as a great practice. On the other hand, if you fail everything that you did turns out to be a bad practice. To be truthful, everyone has their fair share of success and failures. But what makes certain individuals different is how they handle their success and failures. The key thing is to keep a positive attitude and keep moving forward. As the saying goes it is the Attitude and not Aptitude, that will determine one's Altitude. Cheers! ram

I believe that this is something that is also true in life in general. You know, there are times in all of our lives where we fail and there are times when we succeed. However, the biggest thing with life is that if we are able to find the good in everything that happens in our lives then I tend to think that we are going to be a much more successful person than if we are the kind of person that thinks that everything that happens in life is doom and gloom.

You are right fail or success is depend upon individual persons but not always some time depend upon group work or their confidence or hard work. If we are doing the work in organization as a group then depend upon group work to success or fail.

Hi wong! I think our success depends on several factors and how we work for it is just one part of it. There are things that are not just for us no matter how hard we try to have it. Divine intercession is also one thing to consider.

Some people are lucky to achieve things the easy way, like being born under a rich and influential family, or getting jobs through influence and backers rather than qualifications. This are hard truths that are happening everywhere and must also be accepted but not necessarily be looked up to. Anyway, I do believe in what you say, that a person is the most responsible for his situation and whatever actions he/she does, he should be responsible for the consequences. So to fail or to succeed, the person himself must seek and do it.

I believe that true success and failure do depend on the person that is working at it. we are all not made of the same demeanor and it shows in how we strive for the sucess and accept the failures/

hello there wongchoiyee, absolutely. the success and failure of a person depends on his/her hand. hence, if he/she have learned the ups and downs of life in an early stage for sure, he/she can manage it accordingly. and because of experienced, they were able to gain the matured thinking that they used when dealing with such things.

Hi wongchoiyee, the skills is called Social Etiquette and Work Etiquette, it is good to have the knowledge of etiquettes that one can go further and to be respected, it can help a person to act in a respectable manner when socializing. Whilst work Etiquette will differenciate how to behave at work place than home. There is a huge difference between college life and professional life. Office pays to have the work done, always have a notepad a pen when the superior delegate works or in a meeting, take care of pitch and tones at workplace.Last but not least keep your table look like you are busy

If the values of a country is such that the country provides jobs after having judged the merit, skill of the individuals in a democratic way then its encouragive, then it motivates us to promote our overall profile. But in my country all are bribe giver and all are bribe taker. Nepotism is doing well in my country. All kinds of demotivation, disrespects, distrusts develope in a society when corruption prevails there. So no use being educated, skilled, professonal, communicative etc etc.

Hi friend, you are right, our success and failure is depends upon our self. we are in need to face our challenges and win over it with our efforts. We can gain experience from a lot of things and do our work properly with our experience. We are the reason for our success and failures, others don't have any influence in it. Do your work properly with your hard work, effort, dedication and self confidence to achieve success in your life

Success or failure depends on an individual to a certain extent but also on your luck also. In the professional world I have seen people with comparatively less qualification & experience rising above more qualified people. There are office politics in lot of organization but what I feel that whatever work is delegated once should try to deliver 200%, because hard work has got no substitute.