keep love

Indonesia
November 26, 2012 7:49pm CST
difficult to maintain and easy to love looking for love, when we get our first lover definitely excited but when we are already a long time with him for sure we will start to feel sick and tired, how to deal with boredom and saturated with our partners.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Nov 12
lutfies if you are that fickle then you were just in lust not love as love lasts. I was married for 33 years and loved my hubby more and \more. people are human not t oys, a child gets bores inin a few hurs with a toy but people who really l ove love forever not for a few months.I just do not understand young people now days.they cannot hang onto love at all. weirdinmy eyes.
• Malaysia
27 Nov 12
Yeah what hatley say is true. 33 years is very long time. She have a lot of experience about love. You should listen her advice. I just a single person so i cannot say more about love.
• Indonesia
27 Nov 12
hatlay yeah thanks for the advice, but if we feel bored at our partner what should i do to keep from being bored ?
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
thats easy, you try to learn something new about your boyfriend every single day that you spend time. be conscious with his reactions and facial expressions and body actions in response to some situation you two are in. and on your side you always make an effort to do something new for your boyfriend. its not always one person working in a relationship its a mutual effort.
• Indonesia
27 Nov 12
so we must look for different things than before, and we are going to change the style the previous ?
@siya573 (26)
• South Africa
6 Dec 12
That is natural we get bored wen we have something or some one for too long. my advise is 'try to find some special thing that you canot get from the other people you may date' that will kik start your feelings and make you realise ho special is your partner.
• Philippines
30 Nov 12
When you really love someone you wont get tired or bored of loving him. Maybe sometimes you'd feel that everything you do is like a routine. But you can make changes, do different things together, things that you haven't done yet but you wanna try. Have fun!